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The change is the fact that my child now says her boyfriends name instead of mine.  The change is the fact that he will be much better with his father and mother.  The change will be better for everyone except the mother as all she wants is EVERYTHING.

I have tried, but she is very stubbon and will NEVER budge when it comes to money.  Trust me, I tried with her for 5 years.

She is the same with my son.  Why will the courts think it is too soon?  I just want my son.  I pay through the nose and that is fine, let her take everything, but my son.

Hi all,

I divorced in August 2009 and I agreed to have my child (who is 3 years old) for every other weekend.  2 months have passed and I realise that this is not what I want and miss him dearly.  I asked my wife to change it to joint legal/custody, but to be honest she just wants the money from me.

We live in Denver Colorado and I want to file to get joint custody.  Will my chances be good even if I agreed with my wife that she could have my child?  I was in a mess when it came to the divorce and I was not thinking straight.  I deeply regret that decision and my wife has been terrible to me ever since.

I am trying to work it out fairly, but have come to the conclussion that this will not work with how my wife looks at things.

I have had a steady well paid job as does she although I earn 3 times as much.  I have a great apartment and she lives with her mum.  I have no convictions or anything terrible in my history, nor does she.

Please help me in getting my child back.  I feel it is fair and why would a court not understand that it is both the parents right to have the child.  It is right for the child and he will have a healthy upbringing if we can both look after him 50% of the time.

Thanks,
Gibgob