Has anyone ever had an experience up in Otsego County Family Court. Have a fact findig hearing next week, and previous pre-trial conferences regarding granparent visitation/ fathers custody have been unorganized, intimidating and cofusing to say the least.....not to mention an openly hostile judge. If the atmosphere doesn't make you want to give it all up I don't know what does........except that I love my grandaughter. Any tips for a newbie?