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The child is 3 years old, starts school next year when he turns 4. The move was last week and we were just informed on Sunday by a mutual friend. My bf told me that they only went to court for child support for the mother so I'm not too sure if they ever discussed the visitation rights, although he does get to see the child every two weeks at the moment and this has been ongoing for 2 years.

Edit- They are still in state, just over 8 hours away from where we live. (we live on Long Island and they moved about 2 hours away from Buffalo.)

Hello, so my boyfriend's ex girlfriend that has custody over his son, recently told us that she was going on vacation during the weekend that he would get the son, but we have just found out through a mutual friend that the ex girlfriend moved away without telling anyone. She now lives over 8 hours away and my boyfriend is really worried that he won't be able to see his son anymore (she brings him over once every 2 weeks for the weekend only). He is very confused at what to do and if he took it to court, he doesn't think he could do full custody (mainly because he works most of the time and I live in a different town but offered to watch the son). My boyfriends mother and step-father suggested that we file a police report because many people have told them that it is kidnapping. We have taken pictures of them stating that they have moved and also have pictures of their new house, pictures of them for identification, and pictures of their license plates. Now for some background on the ex-girlfriend that has custody. She has been with many different men while having the child with her, also has constantly moved. I know this is a bad environment for a child to grow up in so that brings in the question as to where we believe my boyfriend is going to get custody. Would it be possible for us to bring the ex girlfriend to court and have it so she cannot move away and has to be within a certain distance of the father? Thanks for taking the time to read this!


Edit - We also believe that the mother may be trying to get the father out of the childs life, she has told the child multiple times that "Your father doesn't love you" (the child has told us she had said that) Also when the child has to leave our house, he often says how much he hates his mothers boyfriend because the boyfriend doesn't like the child.