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Any suggestions?

Husband and I talked and he has agreed to let me move to GA.  Both of us agree we do not want to go to court on any of this.  Are there forms or templates that I can print out for his signature of approval of the move and we also want to type up a separation agreement that we both sign just so we both know what we are going to do.

I would be moving out of state.  He hasn't had any overnights because he didn't have his own place he was staying with a friend.  He does know I'm selling, he actually signed the deed over to me so I can sell on my own.  I would like to agree to the move and visitation schedule outside of courts considering neither of us have the money to go.  I don't even want to take child support from him because I know he couldn't afford it and he could use that money to travel to see his son on the weekends I don't come back to nc.  So technically if he wanted I would be fine with him seeing him every weekend.

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State is NC.  We have a 20 month old son.  Husband decided he wanted to separate because he is "unhappy".  He doesn't have any intention of trying to reconcile even though I would like to.  Right now he is seeing son 1 a week in the evening for about 1hr, every other Saturday for about 7hrs and every Sunday for about 4hrs.  He has was staying with a friend but now has his own apartment.  I am in the process of selling our house because I can't afford it and once I sell I feel that I will have to move back in to my parents house who live 4.5hrs away.  Husband does not help financially right now and honestly I don't see how he can in the future if he wants to live out on his own. (does not make a lot of money)  No matter what I think 1 of us will have to live with our parents.  I'm just looking for advice on how to go about this and how it is going to affect our son.  I am willing to do every other weekends with his dad plus holidays and to me that is what a judge would probably order as well.