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My goal is for my daughter to not have to go to school dirty and late all the time, and get appropriate care from her mother, but since i dont see any of that happening and believe me ive tried to make suggestions. I dont  see how its in her best interest to be neglected and subjected to the downward spiral her mother is going thru. Her grandma realizes her daughter isn't properly caring for our daughter is why she mentioned that. I'm  fine with her remaining in private school, but it seems dumb if she cant even get her there on time . Her mother is close to getting evicted and her car repoed, i dont want my kidnto go thru that thinking its normal when we can provide a stable environmwnt.

Yes she has sole custody, we went to a mediator and hashed out the time spent and agreed to bot fight her for full custody at that time because of the split time spent and thought i wouldnt get joint or full custody.

I take my daughter extra time (1-2 day a week) almost every week and have been for 3 out of the 4 years of my kids life.

One of the main reasons i want full custody is the difference in parenting, at her moms ahe is treated as a friend and can do anything she wants then comes to our house and it takes a day or so for her to get back into our routine, by no means are we disciplinarians but we have structure for her.

As for the appointments we have already taken over most if we can, but theres times when we can only get her in on days her mom has her, we live about 20 minutes away from each other ao theres no way she'd ever let her go to a school by us since thatd mean she'd have to drive her 2-3 days a week once she gets to kindergarten, so i pay for her togo to a private school down the street from her since the public school district she lives in has terrible schools, we'd love to be able to send her to our public schools. Idk just frustrating seeing my daughter be raised like trash.

Also affraid if we call csb or have the school do it she'll figure it out and yank her from that school because she'll know they called and get worried, her grandma has already made the comment that the school will call csb if she keeps sending her to that school. Thanks for the help any other comments would be appreciated

Hey I'm looking for some help before i go forth with a lawyer, me and my ex (never married) have a 4 year old in ohio and split time with her 50/50 during the week but she has full custody, i pay child support, insurance, and for her private school. We have a good relationship as co parents so im kind of hesitant to go back to court but the past year and a half she has been a mess.

She has forgot to follow up at doctors appointments for important shots, she misses dentist. and doctors appointments frequently, as well as behavioral therapy sessions that our daughter needs. She has been late to school alot and she only goes 3 days a week, the school has made remarks about her hygiene and dress attire on days her mom takes her, she lets her watch walking dead and other inappropriate shows.

She brings new boyfriends in and out of her life, and now has a 20 yr old girl whose pregnant whom she worked with but barely knows  living in my daughters room and using her bed and my daughter has to sleep in her moms bed every night, she has had a few utilities turned off and her cell phone, and has been seeing her own psy hologist or psychiatrist not sure which dor her own mental health issues, also she has had over 6-7 jobs in 3 years and is always unemployed, and i have viven her money to help and food!!

Sorry i know thats a big jumble of problems but i feel she needs time to get her life together and let me and my wife take over and have full custody, we both have good jobs and live in a nice stable environment, so my question is do i have a chance with all that said to get full custody? Thanks for your time