Unfortunately, without marriage, you must first demonstrate to the court that you are the father before you're recognized as having any rights.
You would NOT file divorce. You would file a paternity action.
In your paternity action, you're going to have to outline what you want.
Since the mother is already living in another state, I think you have a major uphill battle to have your child returned locally.
Even if you don't have $2,000 for a retainer, I would suggest that you meet with an attorney as a consultation to hear what he/she has to say. Some attorneys will do a free initial consultation, and others will charge their normal hourly rate.
You shouldn't tell an attorney that you have no money. Go into the consultation as a person who is considering hiring an attorney.
See what they have to say about your case, including best strategy.
Some courthouses have family law information centers that help fill out paperwork. You may wish to check into that in your county.
Also realize that you'll end up paying child support once paternity is established.
Not a fun road you're facing, but it's a necessary road if you wish to be an involved father.
The BEST shot you have at staying involved with this child is to move to where the mother is and then file your paternity action there.
This isn't about fairness or justice. It's just how things work in child custody rulings.
You would NOT file divorce. You would file a paternity action.
In your paternity action, you're going to have to outline what you want.
Since the mother is already living in another state, I think you have a major uphill battle to have your child returned locally.
Even if you don't have $2,000 for a retainer, I would suggest that you meet with an attorney as a consultation to hear what he/she has to say. Some attorneys will do a free initial consultation, and others will charge their normal hourly rate.
You shouldn't tell an attorney that you have no money. Go into the consultation as a person who is considering hiring an attorney.
See what they have to say about your case, including best strategy.
Some courthouses have family law information centers that help fill out paperwork. You may wish to check into that in your county.
Also realize that you'll end up paying child support once paternity is established.
Not a fun road you're facing, but it's a necessary road if you wish to be an involved father.
The BEST shot you have at staying involved with this child is to move to where the mother is and then file your paternity action there.
This isn't about fairness or justice. It's just how things work in child custody rulings.