The evaluation was court ordered by the custody master at the original hearing. The county sends everything through their children and youth office, but apparently the evaluator does not work for them? That is what she told us anyway.
We are not so worried about little lies...but it does show a pattern of lieing and covering up the truth (which is why we see the brother as an issue, also, he is a fugitive that has made contact and we don't know if he is in the area or not. If it isn't an issue then why deny it that he even exists? See how we are looking at it?) ...and there was no fact finding done in this evaluation. It is like the woman just took statements and we could have said the sky is purple and she would have typed it up as a fact for us...that indeed the sky around our home is purple...does that make sense?
This was a very odd evaluation. She didn't ask for collatoral witnesses or anything. She said that anything that we would want to cover at a trial had to be presented at the time of the evaluation. This is why we layed everything out, but as the weeks pass on we are gathering more. We were offering her paperwork on everything (medical records, school documentation, births, divorce, paternity, bills, pictures, certified letters, ect...if it was in our part of the evaluation we has some sort of supporting documentation). She looked over parts of it and asked for a copy of one physical that appears to be forged or at the very least shows her primary care docs incopotince (sp?) but didn't get anything from the opposing side or look into the situation. Opposing parties stated that she say a doc regularly while in their care and that she was not sick ect. We have numerous documents that show differently. Nothing from them.
My big issue is also the no recommendation...it seems like we gave a hefty chunk of money for there to be no outcome to it. We could have typed up our own statements for free and such. Although our other concern is that if there does come a conclusion based on this evaluation, it is not based on facts (at least not ones coming from the apposing side).
Anyway, thank you for your input. I think I will go to Soc after his vacation. It is just so frustrating right now!
We are not so worried about little lies...but it does show a pattern of lieing and covering up the truth (which is why we see the brother as an issue, also, he is a fugitive that has made contact and we don't know if he is in the area or not. If it isn't an issue then why deny it that he even exists? See how we are looking at it?) ...and there was no fact finding done in this evaluation. It is like the woman just took statements and we could have said the sky is purple and she would have typed it up as a fact for us...that indeed the sky around our home is purple...does that make sense?
This was a very odd evaluation. She didn't ask for collatoral witnesses or anything. She said that anything that we would want to cover at a trial had to be presented at the time of the evaluation. This is why we layed everything out, but as the weeks pass on we are gathering more. We were offering her paperwork on everything (medical records, school documentation, births, divorce, paternity, bills, pictures, certified letters, ect...if it was in our part of the evaluation we has some sort of supporting documentation). She looked over parts of it and asked for a copy of one physical that appears to be forged or at the very least shows her primary care docs incopotince (sp?) but didn't get anything from the opposing side or look into the situation. Opposing parties stated that she say a doc regularly while in their care and that she was not sick ect. We have numerous documents that show differently. Nothing from them.
My big issue is also the no recommendation...it seems like we gave a hefty chunk of money for there to be no outcome to it. We could have typed up our own statements for free and such. Although our other concern is that if there does come a conclusion based on this evaluation, it is not based on facts (at least not ones coming from the apposing side).
Anyway, thank you for your input. I think I will go to Soc after his vacation. It is just so frustrating right now!