*****Hmm, I'm wondering *most of his life*. Was he with biomom before G-mom obtained custody? Was she collecting welfare?
The first month or two of his life or so bm had cusody and more than likely she did recieve welfare benifits. When g-mom got him she wanted no welfare or child support. (I assume no cs or welfare because if she got cs or welfare bm would also have to pay cs as well as my dh) But for 5 years there was a medical support only order. So we are now trying to figure out how they came up with over 11 thousand dollars that my dh owes if there was no support ordered for 5 years out of 7 years. (ss is 7) His cs is and has been set at 179.00 per mo so they way I do math (lol) they are way off. Also it is fine by us if they leave him oweing that support but where is BM's support? Why should she not have to pay? She wasnt supporting him either and we know in foster care situations both parents are required to pay suport so therefor she should be just as responsible as my dh is.
Anyways thats how we are seeing it hopefully the child support agency will see the same when they look it over!
The first month or two of his life or so bm had cusody and more than likely she did recieve welfare benifits. When g-mom got him she wanted no welfare or child support. (I assume no cs or welfare because if she got cs or welfare bm would also have to pay cs as well as my dh) But for 5 years there was a medical support only order. So we are now trying to figure out how they came up with over 11 thousand dollars that my dh owes if there was no support ordered for 5 years out of 7 years. (ss is 7) His cs is and has been set at 179.00 per mo so they way I do math (lol) they are way off. Also it is fine by us if they leave him oweing that support but where is BM's support? Why should she not have to pay? She wasnt supporting him either and we know in foster care situations both parents are required to pay suport so therefor she should be just as responsible as my dh is.
Anyways thats how we are seeing it hopefully the child support agency will see the same when they look it over!