You are correct about the child support, now.
Originally, that is not what she was doing.
She didn't mention an order when she filed in her current state UNTIL her current state called to inform her she could not request child support for children already receiving child support. Her response "Golly gee. I was just wanting to change the jurisdiction and forgot. I'll do it right now." 6 weeks, 20 emails, 15 nastygrams from both states later..she does what the first state told her she had to do.
We finally got it straightened out, as to which state was supposed to be withholding the child support..but that took 30 days because SHE did not do what she was supposed to. Guess what? Then, we get a nastygram asking where her child support is and accusing him of being a deadbeat dad who's refusing to pay child support.
Anyhow...I think we finally have it straight, but if she'd just do the honest thing none of this would happen.
Originally, that is not what she was doing.
She didn't mention an order when she filed in her current state UNTIL her current state called to inform her she could not request child support for children already receiving child support. Her response "Golly gee. I was just wanting to change the jurisdiction and forgot. I'll do it right now." 6 weeks, 20 emails, 15 nastygrams from both states later..she does what the first state told her she had to do.
We finally got it straightened out, as to which state was supposed to be withholding the child support..but that took 30 days because SHE did not do what she was supposed to. Guess what? Then, we get a nastygram asking where her child support is and accusing him of being a deadbeat dad who's refusing to pay child support.
Anyhow...I think we finally have it straight, but if she'd just do the honest thing none of this would happen.