My ex has a live in boyfriend/girlfriend who is helping out with expenses. Can I get my support lowered because of this?

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[My ex has a live in boyfriend/girlfriend who is helping out with expenses. Can I get my support lowered because of this?]

My ex has a live in boyfriend/girlfriend who is helping out with expenses. Can I get my support lowered because of this?

May 14, 2012, 08:25:32 AM

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My ex has a live in boyfriend/girlfriend who is helping out with expenses. Can I get my support lowered because of this?

In a word, no. The court will not count the income of a boyfriend/girlfriend who is living with your ex.

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