mediation

[rosanlu]

Hello,
    I'm new to this , so please be patient.
    I am a grandma who hurts for her son and children. Although my son has joint placement, there are issues that caome up almost on a daily basis. Harrassment, manipulation etc.
   When he tries to explain what is going on and mentions parental aleination, the mediator says she does not think there is such a thing and does'nt buy it. She also told the mother she can take care of the children on his days if she is home, and wants to pursue it. She does not work but tells everyone she does and nobody will have her give any info. on where. It is clearly a ploy to get more money and continue a battle that should end now.
   She is their mom and always will be. How do you go about getting anyone to recognize kids need a dad too? Does the village it takes to raise a child truely exist?
    Thanks
       rosanlu