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[vlad tepes]

hi everybody. been a long time. i hope everyone had a great christmas and you're having a fabulous new year.

well, creature laid one on me the other day. see, several months ago she told me she was moving away to georgia to get married to some army guy who is now in iraq. then she said he was transferring to louisiana, so she'd be moving there. then, a few months ago, she went to visit her cousin in missouri and came back saying she was going to move there. with that in mind, she started bringing baby's clothes and toys to my house since she would not need them where she was going. see, she was going to voluntarily give me full custody and even voluntarily pay child support. to refresh you memories, we have had joint for about 2 yrs now and i'm the custodial parent.  anyway, i've been letting creature get away with quite a bit lately, especially with spending more time with baby than she deserves, because i knew she would not see much of baby once she went to missouri.  well, a few days ago she mentioned the townhouse she was moving into and i asked her where it is. she told me it's only about 20 minutes from here.  she told me missouri went out the window 3 months ago.  i was almost in tears.  there goes full custody. there goes baby's chances at a normal life week in and week out.  just when we were thinking baby would finally have a stable home life, creature pulls this on us.

[MixedBag]

been wondering what happened to you....

[vlad tepes]

hi, MB. yeah, well, after our custody case was finalised i stepped away from sparc for a while, but always came ack. that little sneak waylon deleted my account. i've already had words with him about it. i think he learned his lesson. he's terribly ashamed of himself. he may never be the same again.

anyway, in the last 6 months i finally got my green card, which allows me finally to travel outside the country.  i also had a second back surgery which allowed me to return my rented electric scooter that i'd used for 9 months. it was a tearful parting.

in august, bene, baby and i went home to ontario so baby got to meet her family finally. we spent a blissful week in the loving arms of family. baby had a blast hanging out with so many of her cousins. she fit right in. we made that trip in august so that when we went back for christmas, she'd know who she was getting presents for. she's in love with her cousins and can't wait to go back, maybe this summer.

so much good news, but now creature is putting a damper on things by not moving away.  how you been?

[MixedBag]

Updates are read and printed by my EX and Camilla daily.

Then they twist it into something it's not.

AND then they send to Dh's EX (or call her) who gets upset too because I'm still breathing.....

[vlad tepes]

>Updates are read and printed by my EX and Camilla daily.
>
>Then they twist it into something it's not.
>
>AND then they send to Dh's EX (or call her) who gets upset too
>because I'm still breathing.....

they're not called exes for nothing.

[vlad tepes]

creature is an evil entity. evil!

i talked to the director of religious education on today. he said baby missed 6 of 13 communion classes.  creature has not been taking her to class, class that i've paid for.  creature's been living with her parents for about a month, and she doesn't go to church except on rare occasions.

today after baby's girl scout meeting, i met creature in the meeting room to discuss it. i told her that baby has to go to class or she won't be prepared to make her first communion. the director and i are very concerned by all the classes she's missed.  creature could not care less. she didn't want to even look at me tonight. she said she's trying to set it up so baby goes to creature's parents' parish church instead of mine. no way. she's not their child and creature doesn't go to church, so it ain't happenin', not on my watch.  i told her that if she could not take baby to class then i would do it.  and if that doesn't work, we'd go back to the court order, which says she gets baby monday afternoon after school until thursday morning for school.  lately i've let her have weekends because i thought she was moving to st louis and would not see baby for a long time. anyway, she got steamed when i said that and walked away.

then we put baby in creature's van and continued talking outside. i told her that this morning baby tried to take out her braids because she was afraid creature would not like the rubber bands in her hair. baby was so worried about offending creature that she started to cry about it. so creature told me that, baby cries every time creature brings her back home to me. i can believe that because creature has so dominated baby's life and attitudes. once baby is here, though, she's fine.

i talked about some other things, like how i'm signing baby up for softball. she steamed about them.  in fact, we heard baby crying inside the van. she had opened the window and was listening to us. we told her to close the window, but my poor daughter's heart was breaking because her evil mother could not keep her composure.  creature kept saying she did not want to talk to me, why couldn't we do this on the phone, talking to me upsets her.

when we were finished talking, i hugged baby through the car window and told her "we're working things out.  we're trying to make things better for you."  creature just continued to not bother to hide her displeasure even then.

anyway, as we drove away from the school, creature phoned me to say they were coming to my house. they got here ahead of me. when i pulled in, baby got out of the car, tears streaming down her face, and creature drove away. not a word.

baby fell on my shoulder and sobbed that she'd see mummy on Mon and Wed (she probably meant Mon-Wed). that evil creature just left her in the driveway without a word of discussion with me.  who knows what horrible things creature might have told her on the 15 minute drive to my house.

10 minutes after she got there, baby stopped crying and started laughing again.

that beast.