BM's lawyer requested a forensics evaluation because BM said DH
was OCD and it was affecting the kids.
The evaluation was ordered and we agreed to their choice, who happened to be a police psychologist who teaches for the FBI in many countries.
We provided the evaluator with a thorough chronology along with all the proof we could provide. We left the he said/she said stuff to a minimum.
Within the 30 page report it said BM was deceitful, uses the system to get her way, is manipulative, sociopathic, psychopathic, Anti-social behavior disorder and borderline personality
. He said the allegations she made against DH were most likely things she has done herself, she makes bad choices, is a threat to the DH and the kids and if the kids continue to live with her they will wind up in the system themselves. He also said the kids were obviously coached before going in to see him.
He did a thorough background check and confirmed our info that SF is a convicted felon with 26 violent arrests, 5 years in prison, 4 wives and 2 kids with no rights.
It said DH was riddled with anxiety but he is working on it. I bit self-centered a lttle compulsive but not OCD.
You should know that BM is NOT AT ALL smart but she thinks.
Whatever type of evaluation you get make sure YOU supply them with valid proof. Don't expect them to do all the digging. Also supply them with a list of names and phones numbers of people you think might be helpful to interview.