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Another Father prevails!!!...m
« on: Jul 31, 2008, 08:04:54 AM »
One of my co-workers and her fiance' were going through a nasty custody battle with a totally insane BM.

This mother (and it's very difficult for me to call her that), married someone off the internet from a different state.  She thought she would marry this guy, pack up the kids and move in with him.  Told the kids they were moving and that this guy will be their new Daddy.  Needless to say that didn't sit well with the children's father so he filed to stop her!

That's when crap literally hit the fan!  This BM lost it completely, threatened that she was going to kill herself and the kids.  My co-worker being a mandatory reporter (police officer) of course reported that. Social Services got involved, a GAL was appointed and this case dragged on for over a year.  It would take days to go into all the weird and sick crap this BM pulled...the worst thing is that she would watch Porn with the kids in the room with her!!!

The final trial was this week and the judge was astonished at the crap that went on with this case!!  The BM somehow got a detective to smear my co-worker and now that detective is under an internal review.  It also appears that the BM has bilked the state for benefits she wasn't entitled to (Day care vouchers, food stamps, electrical assistance, etc) all with having over $34K in the bank!!!  She was caught several times on the stand in blatent LIES!!!  I guess the judge went off on her and she didn't say a word!!!

So the judge did the right thing and awarded my co-worker's Fiance' (CWF) with SOLE custody!!!  BM told the judge flat out that she's moving to the state with the new hubby so the judge ordered her to pay transportation...she's not going to be able to afford it because their are 3 kids involved all under the age of 7!!  Oh and get this...after the trial, she went up to CWF and said "I'll be coming up here to visit the children" so CWF said fine with him and then BM asked where should she stay and indicated that she wanted to stay with him.  CWF said NO WAY and told her that was her problem!!

Chalk another case up to what was in the best interest of the children!!!  CWF is a very DEVOTED father and has been since day one of the kids lives!!  I'm very happy for them!!!
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RE: Another Father prevails!!!...m
« Reply #1 on: Jul 31, 2008, 09:14:20 AM »
That's great! I am surprised to hear it though with everything that BM's are allowed to get away with these days in court. It is refreshing to hear of a judge with common sense and eyes that aren't blind to individual situations.

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« Reply #2 on: Jul 31, 2008, 01:40:15 PM »

Great !!

Did she try to use the courts because she assumed mother custody  ??

The problem I have is that the mother's behavior has to be so outrageous in order for the father to even have a chance of being in the children's life.  Seems that some if not all behaviors (porn w kids !!) could be open to criminal prosecution.

Can CWF build a smalll shed in the back yard that only locks from the outside to acccomodate this animal during visits.  Might keep the kids safe !!

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« Reply #3 on: Jul 31, 2008, 08:54:42 PM »
LMAO, you crack me up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Not a bad idea though!  Better pad the walls.........she probably will be bouncing off of them like a ping pong ball!  

And I'd definitely be looking into criminal charges.............for the exposure of porn to the kids AND for dragging the co-worker's name through the mud.  Gotta be some slander or libel issues there....
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RE: Another Father prevails!!!...m
« Reply #4 on: Aug 01, 2008, 05:55:21 AM »
That's the problem I have! It takes completely outrageous behavior by the BM for the father to finally have a chance of gaining custody of his children. If two sane parents walk in to a court room the mother automatically wins even if the father is more responsible and better suited in every aspect of life to care for and raise his children. Like in this case; this woman is obviously competely insane, yet she still thought she had a chance at getting custody, it is a testament to the flaws and bias in the system today.


 

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