Very similar situation here,8 weeks seperated,no orders in place,here in ohio the sheriffs have told me both parents have the right to the child,ive been lucky theyve let my 8 yr old daughter decide who she wants to be with (daddy of course :)),wife tried to remove me from the schools contact and pick up imformation to no avail,our temp. orders hearing is wed,feb 2nd and im scared to death whats gonna happen,read my story one small victory under fathers issues,good luck and always do whats right for the child,theyre the future,hope it all goes well for you