OK.
BM is losing her marbles. I sent an email to
SD asking if she was ok and wishing her well after her mom called the house saying that SD had an emergency. On the email I offered to call
DH's cell if she wanted me to.
BM intercepted the email and replied to me on SD's account saying that I was not to be involved in SD's life and that she and SD were perfectly capable of calling DH's cell.
DH tried to call SD but BM answered and started yelling at him about money. He asked several times to what happened to SD and then asked to speak with her directly. BM said she would only pass the phone on if he listened to everything she had to say and proceeded to say disparaging things about him. He hung up the phone.
He sent SD an email saying that he tried to called her and hoped she was ok. He did say that her mom wouldn't put her on the phone. He offered to reimburse her for cellphone calls if he would give him her cellphone number (BM refuses to let DH have SD's cell number)
Low and behold BM sends an email from SD's account saying that DH is stupid and that she has all of SD's passwords and can delete any emails DH sends her at any time. She said she has never done that, but will in these circumstances.
DH resends his email to SD and BM writes "intercepted again!". He resends again and she replies again saying "you aren't very smart are ya".
What to do? DH still doesn't know what is wrong with SD. He can't call or email her.
Ugh. We have 5 months and 22 days left. Does it really get darkest before the dawn?