Thanks for that information.
I have another question which I wondered if anyone might know the answer to. I have to provide discovery evidence to the BMs attorney next week. I know that it doesn't have to include arguments on my part. I have a ton of emails to present in evidence. I will also have medical reports, police reports and so on. I am not sure if I have to give them to the BMs attorney. As I see it, that is more like evidence to support my arguments. But I am unsure because from the research I have done, it appears you cannot add evidence at the hearing if you have not produced it to the opposing attorney.