>what you are saying in my opinion is.. I dont want to work
>this marriage out, I want to be done, but I want to put on a
>mask that everything is fine until it is convienient for me,
>and until I get what I want out of the relationship, I
>personally think this is a terrible thing to do..so unfair to
>your children, and to yourself, if you are done with the
>marriage, end it, otherwise you may cause hurt and resentment
>that is beyond words.. How long have you been married? Is she
>the devil reincarnated? Now I realize there are probably a
>lot of people that are not gonig to agree with what I said,
>but its just my opinion..
I do disagree. When I first read what Yoda wrote, I was thinking along your lines, but in reading his follow-ups I've changed my mind. Fathers so often get screwed with custody. This guy is trying to get 50/50, not pull a stunt to get
full custody. If this is what he has to do to remain strongly involved in his kids' lives, I say good luck.