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feeling unjustified so are my children
« on: Sep 29, 2014, 05:02:09 PM »
 :'( help I need someone to talk to. Was treated horribly this Summer


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Re: feeling unjustified so are my children
« Reply #1 on: Sep 29, 2014, 05:15:26 PM »
Need more info to help...what is going on? What court orders do you already have?

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Re: feeling unjustified so are my children
« Reply #2 on: Sep 29, 2014, 05:31:08 PM »
well this summer I was treated very horribly by my own family.I have four sons and all are unsupervised visits except for one.my aunt and uncle have my 14 year old.I've been having supervised visitations unnecessarily with him for 12 long years.well this year my 15 year old son travel 1500 miles to visit me for the summer.when my aunt and uncle heard about that the games begin.me and my 15 year old went to visit my 14 year old for his graduation.the complaining start ed. they didn't want me in their car.they didn't want me selling my candy to bring food in the house.they didn't want me going outside not even the backyard.they locked me from the inside of the house for 2 days....

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Re: feeling unjustified so are my children
« Reply #3 on: Sep 29, 2014, 05:45:19 PM »
Not sure but you stayed in their house to visit?
When was the last time you were in court over this older child? Is child okay with you and wants unsupervised? You could go to family court and ask for unsupervised for that child. When you visit, make other arrangements on where to stay.
What is it you want? You are not going to change people but we can help getting you court orders that work for you and your children.

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Re: feeling unjustified so are my children
« Reply #4 on: Sep 29, 2014, 05:50:50 PM »
then we went to see my grandma in the hospital.I had to leave soon because I was still grieving over my eldest son who passed away at 21 due to diabetes.so I went outside to get some air.they say they will be right down.I stayed there for hours.so I went for a walk.it started to get dark in rain.then my uncle called me and said he was going to call the police and tell them I'm suicidal.I was far from that.I was very happy to be with my boys and go to a graduation they told my husband he couldn't go to the graduation.my uncle be at 400 pounds is very intimidating and the police believe him.koalas locked away for nearly two weeks and missed the graduation.also my uncle convince my 15 year old that for him not to spend the summer with me.I forgive them but I just don't know how are visitations are going to be from now on.I had to move because my uncle called the police on me for many years if he can contact me by phone. what to do what to do? I know my kid loves me very much and show it


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Re: feeling unjustified so are my children
« Reply #5 on: Sep 29, 2014, 06:04:35 PM »
How far away to you live now? What does the visitation papers say about exactly when you get to see child next?
You can try and go to the family courts near you and see if you qualify for legal aid lawyer. They will help you get some answers you are looking for. Maybe you can do visits at a public place, they drop child off at library? or if you have a place for child for a few hours?

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Re: feeling unjustified so are my children
« Reply #6 on: Sep 29, 2014, 06:21:32 PM »
I live 90 miles for one is 1500 miles from one another. But they doesnt bother me. but I think it will be a good idea for us to meet at a mutual place.he keep lying on me thinking that I would just give up but I'm not.and to top it all off he's supposed to be a dedicated Christian

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Re: feeling unjustified so are my children
« Reply #7 on: Sep 29, 2014, 06:32:09 PM »
Plus on top of all that they strip search me and my luggage before I can even come into their house. I guess I went through all is that because I dearly love my kids

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Re: feeling unjustified so are my children
« Reply #8 on: Sep 29, 2014, 06:36:50 PM »
Best thing is to have visits outside their home. They have supervised centers if that is what you need or at a counselor office for a while then public place.
Go see if you qualify for legal aid.

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Re: feeling unjustified so are my children
« Reply #9 on: Sep 29, 2014, 10:30:10 PM »
Ok thanks

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Re: feeling unjustified so are my children
« Reply #10 on: Sep 30, 2014, 05:57:36 AM »
great suggestions Ocean!

 

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