Ocean, since
BM and DS were representing themselves....and didn't know that if they wanted anyone else heard, they had to ask to have them sworn in....no one else was able to make a statement.
DS already got the decision....the NCO has been continued. Would love to know the judge's reasoning behind that, since the first one was never violated and it was solely based on her statement of 'being afraid', tho I don't know of what. But we don't know what the conditions are yet...the clerk of court said they were mailing that out, so DS should have that in the next day or 2.
What gets to me is that if the judge does change intermediaries to my B and SIL, then GD will have to be exchanged TWICE every time.....BM to B or SIL, then B or SIL to either DS,
DH or I. And if that does happen, I can see my B and SIL demanding that it be only DS who does the exchanges with them, just so they can try to get under his skin. If that happens, DS will have no choice but to file for contempt. I WILL insist to DS that exchanges should be done in a public place with cameras. But unfortunately, we live in a very rural small town.....I'd have to look around to see if there's any business with cameras in the area. Otherwise, there's a police station not far from BM's apt. (she lives in a larger city about 20 miles from us....it's also where DS and I work) where exchanges could be done.
Praying to God that we get GD this weekend.....