SS has not been visiting with
bm. She lied to his probation officer, in our opinion and knowledge of the facts, in an attempt to get him and thus - us in trouble. BM has not tried to enforce visitation..she calls ss almost weekly to ask if he is coming, but does not speak to dh, does not advise of visitation schedule as required in order, and has made no attempt to pick ss up as required by her once a month.
So, last week she called and asked ss if he was coming on Friday. He said no, we were going to Cincinnati for appt (we live in VA). So, she says okay and hangs up. This was on Tuesday or Wednesday. Thursday morning she and her mom drive 10 hours one way to stay in Kentucky and show up Friday at ss' appt. When she had custody, she took the Shriner's transportation and attended the appts.
So, she knew where ss would be when she called. She also did not mention that she was coming as well to him. She drove 10 hours one way for a 10 minute appt. She called ss over to her and while he sat beside her, she was draped over him. He is 15 and in public, she is always laying on him or has a hand on his shoulder, person at all times.
Thing is, he was not happy with her being there..he looked stunned and unhappy and she calls him over to lay on him!! Then goes back with him and dh and takes over the appt saying ss has been working out and losing weight. This was a lie for one...but, for another, how would she know?
See the drama and games surrounding her! Called him with her little game and then thought she was being cute showing up unexpected....