Let's see..I've been on this site for well over 9 years..1999 is was that I started looking for some help for
DH and his kids. He, unfortunately, let their mother dictate and control their relationship not knowing he had rights too...but we are past that now.
So, I believe some were here when his ex followed me here. I'm sure Waylon remembers deleting her account because she was pretending to be me in chat..a slight variation on my old posting name. She even posted some weird things here complaining about my husband knowing the whole while I was a member here. That's when it was FRTC site--FATHERS rights to custody--and there she was...
There is quite an extensive list of things she has done in the past...mind you, unless the kids ask, that information is kept private. We don't operate the same way she does.
Kids are almost 20--twins, boy, and a girl. DH is most proud of them both for serving their country and having a direction for their lives as opposed to so many kids that don't...we say absolutely nothing to them regarding their mother. OH, I did find out that she is actually the person behind their myspace accounts--that's not surprising. Her pretending to be either of them on the net is not surprising either. Hey, if they let her have their passwords, that's their "thing".
BUT..while our court actions are over, all over with, kids are old enough to make their own decisions, etc.....she still follows me all over the net. She could be here now, I don't know for sure....I'm sure I woulda heard about it if she was though.
I have a myspace account and a yahoo360 account--both are private and the only thing that can be seen is my profile.
She is on there viewing at least 3 times a day.
yes, I know for sure...
3 times a day for each account.
I have closed off any and all net info for well over a year now...all things are private..
For example--Dh and I went out last night--yes, New Year's Eve, but New Years Day is my birthday--I came home, weee hours of the morning and she'd already been on my yahoo profile 2 times!
What is this obsession with me? I can sorta understand this like when
SS was here. I know she's scared to death he'd find out about her postings about him--perhaps because her mind is so warped she thinks we operate like she does and fill his head with garbage, but she needn't worry, unless he asks...
BUT seeking me out at all hours of the night?????
I don't get it.
Unless like I've always tucked back in the corner of my mind and she really is attracted to me? EWWWWWWWWWWWWWW