The problem I have is that I'm not comfortable in groups catering to divorced, CP women. I don't have the stomach for some of the subject matter, they don't understand what I'm dealing with, and I'm not sure what their goals are.
As for my story, just look at some of my posts here. Even though I'm a female CP, I feel more comfortable here, because I need real, objective help with this stuff. I'm just worried about my kids, because their whole future is at stake. PAS depends on the individual child, I think. My son is passive aggressive, and plays both sides against the middle. My youngest is emotionally torn between doing what daddy says, and doing what I tell her she needs to do.
I don't usually go into chat rooms these days, but I'll keep it in mind. Thanks :-)