I posted that because I do know how difficult the CP can make it on the NCP when it comes to long distance, phone contact. My ex on the eastcoast is the king of interference...along with his bride. They do everything in their power to make sure I don't have any contact with my son, and yet, tell him what a loser I am because I never call him. When I was paying an astronomical amount of CS, they weren't happy...when I got my CS reduced, they tried to convince my son it was because I didn't love him and didn't want to support him...I sent him phone cards to use, even when I was paying about $1000 a month in CS, and they took them and used them for *their* long distance phone calls, so when he tried to call, the minutes were gone.
There comes a point when the NCP says f#$k this and gets creative...
and that is what we had to do so we can maintain contact...he calls his sister, she conferences me in, so we can talk. But he has to make the call, as a call initiated by me simply won't get through...
Oh yes, they have my cell phone number blocked...but I have yet to let them know what my other numbers are..