>1) Do I run the risk of pissing the judge off and loosing just
>based on my non compliance (the father isn't holding me in
>contempt though)?
You run the risk of being held in contempt, going forward,for willfully violating the court's order.
>
>2) How can the judge order him to have visits at his mothers
>house versus where he really lives?
Judge can order whatever the judge wants to order, and it's up to you to appeal the order to a higher court, or seek reconsideration from the trial judge.
>3) Is there paperwork that i/my lawyer can file to try to
>change this?
Motion for reconsideration.
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>4) A home eval. was ordered, are they going to his mother's
>house and where he really is living at?
That's up to the evaluator.
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>5) I just moved into a duplex apartment, haven't purchased
>living room furniture but everything else is furnished, can
>this negatively impact me in the courts eyes because I don't
>have living room furniture?
The issue is the child's best interests. The home environment is a factor. How much weight this has depends on how the evaluator views the issue, and how it's reported to the court, and then how the court views it.
Way too speculative for me to give you an opinion. But, yes, it can affect the outcome -- I just don't know if it will or not.