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By one day more i mean in a whole year. Not on a monthly basis. In the summer father has child more then me,,,during the school year, i have child more. Plus dad's normal visitation stuff.

Well it's not like he provides alot of support. He only pays $123 a month. So YES i do provide most of the finanical support for the child. I am sorry i even asked this question. If i would of knew i was going to be attacked i would of never asked.

We are in PA.  I'm on SSI so his dad does make more money then I get on disability.

If father has child one day more then mom does that mean that child support automatically stops??

yes school is over for in two days. I think it all boils down to racing and hunting. I also have an email that states that too from her dad's wife.

actully it's not dad who wants it. This is all his wife. Everything has to be ran by her first.  DD DOES NOT WANT to change schools. She wants to stay in this district and to do that it would mean she has to have residence in this distict. She does have a IEP because she is ADHD/dyslexic/ and being tested for ODD.

I have a 16 yr old DD who i have had custody of since birth. Father did not have any involvment until she was 9. There is a visitation court order in place however, i do allow her to see dad on "off" days too. Just for the asking. She wants to go live with her dad. Only because it's "FUN" time at dad's house. They get her on the weekends so they don't have to worry about homework/dinner/showers by a certain time in order for school the next day. They do races/hunting/camping/boating and the list goes on. Well i can't do this stuff because we have studies to do when she gets home from school during the week and then weekends she's off to dads.  If you ask DD why she wants to live with dad she will tell you "There is nothing to do here" and "she gets blamed for everything"..but if you ask my other child she says "she gets blamed for everything". Which i expect ALL brothers/sisters to say this kind of stuff.

We do have a IEP in place as DD has learning problems. I have a statement from the school that states that i am very activitly involved with her education/emails teachers/makes sure assignments are completed and so on.  DD wants to stay in this district HOWEVER where her dad lives is in another district. I also have documentation that her dads house was in forclosure for $45000. , her dad only works maybe two weeks a month, and can't read.

I have tried to offer them all summer visitation as long as he was with me during the school year and weekend visits with dad but NO GO. So off to court we go. Do you think i'm going to lose my daughter because it's more fun at her dads house??