I am a father of a wonderful 12 year old daughter. Her and I have a great time when we are together and she truly is the apple of my eye. Her mother has relocated my daughter to 3 different cities since our divorce. I have always had to pick up the pieces of these moves, however never missing a pickup or support payment. I have court ordered access to my daughter.
Throughout all this, I have dealt with PAS on a major major level. IT is so bad that now that my ex wife claims my daughter does not want to talk to me , and refuses to allow me to talk to her on the phone. This is the only contact i have as she lives in a different city. I am absolutely devestated.
At christmas, I tried in vain to access my daughter my phone , of course only to hear the same response "she does not want to talk to you". I drove to her house contacted the police with my court order and advised them that i wanted to access my daughter as per my court order. The police informed me that I did not have an apprehension clause in my order therefore they could not really do anything. So much for a $26,000 order i payed a lawyer for. The police however were willing to talk my ex spouse into letting me bring in her presents. When I seen my daughter she had lost at least 25 lbs, she looked frail and defeated. She told me Merry Christmas Daddy , hugged me and whispered in my ear I love you.
Following this the ex brings a motion to the court to deny me "unathorized visits to the home", "an order to not allow me to send gifts for my daughter at her school", "a request to change my daughtes name to follow her new married name" There was also a statement apparently (not sworn) from my daughter that she does not want to see me.
Upon replying to this request, I asked the court to order that she comply with the court order and my access be re instated. The court said without talking to my daughter, simply taking the mothers word that my daughter does not want to talk to me, that Rebecca is 12 and she can contact you if she wishes. So we cannot enforce your order.
My poor little girl is there trapped without a say , and I have never heard from her personally that she does not want to see me, however the police or the courts cannot helpl.
sad situation in Canada.
Throughout all this, I have dealt with PAS on a major major level. IT is so bad that now that my ex wife claims my daughter does not want to talk to me , and refuses to allow me to talk to her on the phone. This is the only contact i have as she lives in a different city. I am absolutely devestated.
At christmas, I tried in vain to access my daughter my phone , of course only to hear the same response "she does not want to talk to you". I drove to her house contacted the police with my court order and advised them that i wanted to access my daughter as per my court order. The police informed me that I did not have an apprehension clause in my order therefore they could not really do anything. So much for a $26,000 order i payed a lawyer for. The police however were willing to talk my ex spouse into letting me bring in her presents. When I seen my daughter she had lost at least 25 lbs, she looked frail and defeated. She told me Merry Christmas Daddy , hugged me and whispered in my ear I love you.
Following this the ex brings a motion to the court to deny me "unathorized visits to the home", "an order to not allow me to send gifts for my daughter at her school", "a request to change my daughtes name to follow her new married name" There was also a statement apparently (not sworn) from my daughter that she does not want to see me.
Upon replying to this request, I asked the court to order that she comply with the court order and my access be re instated. The court said without talking to my daughter, simply taking the mothers word that my daughter does not want to talk to me, that Rebecca is 12 and she can contact you if she wishes. So we cannot enforce your order.
My poor little girl is there trapped without a say , and I have never heard from her personally that she does not want to see me, however the police or the courts cannot helpl.
sad situation in Canada.