Fallen Fathers, Candlelight Vigil

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The Fallen Fathers Candlelight Vigil

In memoriam of those Fathers that have lost their lives to the tyranny,
greed and negligence of a judicial system that has fallen to corruption
over the past 30+ years. These Fathers will NOT perish in vain.

Every year, between 12,000 to 18,000 men / Fathers either die, commit
suicide or are murdered in direct relation to the divorce industry.

The figures are much higher but the governments across the globe will
not cooperate in tracking these figures, so it is left up to those
Fathers that are still standing to track this tragic set of statistics
and to flush out the truths. We have found that thousands of Fathers
that become separated from their children as a result of divorce have
been locked away from contact with their children and this has taken
the extreme toll on many Fathers.

March 11th, every year, across the globe, Fathers hold a memoriam for
those fallen Fathers with a candlelight vigil.

If you know of a Father that has committed suicide or has died or has
been murdered due to a family breakup, please contact us with the story
and the Father's name so that we may associate him with this vigil.

Please send stories to: TulsaFathers@y... and please enter
relevant information in the subject line, such as FALLEN FATHER, so as
not to dismiss your E-Mail as spam.

These vigils are up to YOU to make them happen. For ideas and
questions, log onto http://darrinwhite.com,
http://www.fathers.bc.ca/darrin_white.htm, //www.MillionDadsMarch.org or
//www.TulsaFathers.org for more information. These vigils are in memory
of all the Fathers and their children, for all the pain and suffering
throughout the past three decades of tyranny and greed by those that
would never be able to achieve the true status and right to be called...

a Father.

For more information as to what we are doing to prevent Fathers from
reaching this point, please see the links below.

http://www.fathers.bc.ca/darrin_white.htm

http://www.fathersforlife.org/fatherhood/white.htm

http://pcaccanada.tripod.com/darrin_white.html

http://guestbooks.pathfinder.gr/read/Darrin

http://home.columbus.rr.com/dmw/images/darrinres.pdf

http://www.familylawcentre.com/supportarticles.html

http://www.fact.on.ca/news/news0003/vs000323.htm

http://www.glennsacks.com/darrin_whites_14.htm

http://www.sen.parl.gc.ca/acools/news00/news_mar00.htm

http://www.adiospapa.org/autores/dlaframboisedw.htm

http://www.timmins101.com/messages/messages/1/258.html?988813520

http://www.lbduk.org/Darrin%20White.htm

http://www.gnaf.ca/pdf/AGMminutes2002.pdf

http://www.mesacanada.com/suicid18.htm

http://mera.50megs.com/altmrfa2.html

http://www.sharedparent.freeyellow.com/2002MarchDarrinWhiteAnniversary.doc

http://www.parl.gc.ca/36/2/parlbus/chambus/house/debates/076_2000-03-
31/han076_1100-e.htm

http://www.childrensjustice.org/barnett-white.htm

http://www.lapresrupture.qc.ca/opinion_DebbieEmpey.html

http://www.nnsl.com/frames/newspapers/2002-02/feb8_02fest.html

http://www.lawsociety.bc.ca/library/news/body_news_00-03-30%28nonlawyers%29.html

http://e.webring.com/hub?ring=canadianfathers

http://www.bcfreepress.bc.ca/page120.html

http://mensnewsdaily.com/archive/newswire/nw03/mnd/newswire010603.htm

http://www/PaternityFraud.com

http://www.milliondadsmarch.org

http://tulsafathers.org

http://fathersrights.meetup.com

http://www.thetruthandjusticefoundation.org

http://www.mensdefense.org/

http://www.mens-network.org

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Tulsa_Area_Fathers_Rights_Association

http://groups.yahoo.com/groups/International-Fathers

http://www.mensnewsdaily.com

http://www.stephenbaskerville.net

http://www.falseallegations.com

http://hisside.com


ANYONE can talk the talk, but WHO will WALK THE WALK?
Find your state / country and get signed-up!
It's World-Wide!

1) Fathers
2) Children
3) Mothers
4) Grandparents
5) Foster Children
6) Adopted Children
7) Families
8) Abused Men
9) Victims of the Divorce Industry
10) ifeminists
11) Second Wives
12) Step Children
13) Step Parents
14) Paternity Fraud Victims
15) Responsible Fatherhood Programs
16) Victims of CPS, DFS, DHHS, CSE (Alphabet Agencies)

If you weren't considered an integral part of this movement, you
would not have been notified.If your state / country does not yet have
a coordinator, maybe it's time for you to step up to the plate. Be sure
to forward this to other groups and individuals along the way.

Our European Coordanitor is: Sven Reib E-Mail:
info@M...
Web: //www.MarchaMadrid2003.com

Our U.S. translator is: Don Hank... JLaigle@a...
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Sponsored in part by: TulsaFathers.org, ACFC-OK, ACFC-KC, NCFC,
MillionDadsMarch Network

Darrin had his bank account emptied by the courts and child support
collectors in Canada. When they got done with Darrin, he had just
enough money left in his account to buy a length of rope.......

....... and then go hang himself.

These are just a few of the websites that are springing up worldwide.....




What God has given you, let NO MAN take away.
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The Darrin White/Fallen Father's Vigil is a worldwide event, held every
year on March 11th, the year 2003 being the first year that the vigil
went worldwide.

This being the 6th year for Todd Eckert of Canada, who started these
vigils as his best friend Darrin White committed suicide.

More can be researched at: http://www.darrinwhite.com/

Todd Eckert is the primary creator/sponsor for this event and his
attitude is a joyous "Welcome aboard and yes, do whatever you can"...
Learning more about the tragedies of Father/Male suicide, I asked Todd
if he wouldn't mind if others joined in as well and if we should
exploit this vigil worldwide. He was 100% in acceptance and therefore,
we are exploiting this event globally.

You can contact Todd directly at: toadster_1@y...

Todd Eckert
DWCLV oranizer 2003
250-314-7722

http://www.fathersforlife.org/menbroke.htm
In the interval from 1979 to 1996 there were a total of 535,890 deaths
in the U.S.A. that were diagnosed and reported to have been suicides.
Of these suicide victims, 421,991 were boys and men, and 113,899 were
girls and women.

Other websites:
http://www.fathers.bc.ca/darrin_white.htm
http://www.fathersforlife.org/fatherhood/white.htm
http://pcaccanada.tripod.com/darrin_white.html
http://guestbooks.pathfinder.gr/read/Darrin
http://home.columbus.rr.com/dmw/images/darrinres.pdf
http://www.familylawcentre.com/supportarticles.html
http://www.fact.on.ca/news/news0003/vs000323.htm
http://www.glennsacks.com/darrin_whites_14.htm
http://www.sen.parl.gc.ca/acools/news00/news_mar00.htm
http://www.adiospapa.org/autores/dlaframboisedw.htm
http://www.timmins101.com/messages/messages/1/258.html?988813520
http://www.lbduk.org/Darrin%20White.htm
http://www.gnaf.ca/pdf/AGMminutes2002.pdf
http://www.mesacanada.com/suicid18.htm
http://mera.50megs.com/altmrfa2.html
http://www.sharedparent.freeyellow.com/2002MarchDarrinWhiteAnniversary.doc
http://www.parl.gc.ca/36/2/parlbus/chambus/house/debates/076_2000-03-31/han076_1\
100-e.htm
http://www.childrensjustice.org/barnett-white.htm
http://www.lapresrupture.qc.ca/opinion_DebbieEmpey.html
http://www.nnsl.com/frames/newspapers/2002-02/feb8_02fest.html
http://www.lawsociety.bc.ca/library/news/body_news_00-03-30%28nonlawyers%29.html
http://e.webring.com/hub?ring=canadianfathers
http://www.bcfreepress.bc.ca/page120.html
http://mensnewsdaily.com/archive/newswire/nw03/mnd/newswire010603.htm

This is where we were last year, 2003:
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Subj: Re: Darrin White Vigil Packages
Date: 2/18/2003 1:19:11 AM Central Standard Time
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To: TulsaFathers@a..., pjuoksu@m...,
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ktitus@s..., lise_bilodeau@y..., northern_sky@c...,
toadster@t..., b_depape@h..., ozzyde@n...,
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I am pleased to announce that we have eleven confirmed partisipants (in
diferent cities) for the Darrin White Candle Light Vigil for this year.
On the first year we had 1 city, second year 4 cities, third year 5
cities (small turn out because of lack of organization and short
notice), and this year with lots of notice we will double!) We even
have one city in the USA.

I've cc'd Bill and Vern in hopes they can convince Toronto(FACT), and
Earl to see if he can get Calgary going. Both these groups were
involved in the past

I will be sending out all the packages via email except for one to be
done by snail mail before Tuesday February 25th. The Vigil is on the
11th of March, so there will be time to work with the items before
hand.

The package will include (in no particular order), a suggested program,
a picture of Darrin, his daughter Ashlee's letter, a Canada Court Watch
article, an outline of the areas of family law that cause this tragity,
a partial list of others who have lost their lives due to suicide
because of family law, a press release, a set of suggested directions,
list of cities and group names participating (to go out with press
release), Lord's Prayer, and posibly a few more items.

If anyone has any questions at any time do not hessitate to call me.

Todd Eckert
DWCLV oranizer 2003
250-314-7722
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Generally what we have been promoting/suggesting is the active
participation of individuals/groups worldwide as these issues need to
be flushed out into the public eye, need to be addressed and corrected.

Being that most individuals/groups are just catching onto the growth of
this vigil, the basic concept is to hold a vigil in your city,
prefferably at the county courthouse, during hours of opperation and
then into the night, early evening @ 7pm or whatever will suit the
conditions of the area.

Getting a local pastor or minister and your local church groups
involved would be ultimate.

Utilizing community internet calanders, news ads and PSA's (Public
Service Announcements) whenever possible works well. I have found that
when I go online and post something in the local media "calander of
events", draws a lot of media attention, as they scan those calendars
to keep up with the local community.

We suggest that people get a tiki-torch type oil lamp as well as a box
of candles and small Dixie Cups at a local discount store to keep
expenses down. Having candles available to offer passers-by a chance
for involvement makes them feel a part of this great cause, whereas, no
candle, no interest to stand at your side.

The Tiki-Torch canister from, say Wal-Mart, along with the lamp oil
works well so that the group can have an "eternal flame" at their vigil
and having a flame available not only creates a pressance, but allows
others just arriving a quick access to getting their candles lit. The
Dixie-Cups work well with an inserted candle to catch the wax flow as
well as create a glow when using these at night.

Banners, posters, leaflets, etc., to show and handout describing short
and precise statistics as to the atrocitie(s) of male/Father suicide
that is occuring worldwide. Most definitley pictures of loved ones
affected by the divorce industry in tragic times such as this.

Personally, I have created several posters, (One Attached) that has the
names and cause of death of these fathers in the background, with a
general message that stands out. If you would like to follow suit, I
have used a program called: POSTER 7, available on the internet at:
http:/www.postersoftware.com

This program will allow you the ability to make several posters that
print out on 8 1/2 X 11" paper and then you trim and paste together
much like a puzzle. It works great when you do not have time or
resources to run to a printer.

I held a vigil in front of the Tulsa County Courthouse last year, (1st
one of these I sponsored) There were two of us with a large amount of
pins, (photo attached as well), posters as well as flyers to hand out
to bring about awareness to the crisis of Father suicide and murder
caused by the Divorce Industry.

It was interesting to see most lawyers cower and run past us, whereas
most family members that had relatives or friends in the situation of
considering to or have in fact been killed or had taken their own life
due to the divorce industry.

We had a circuit court judge stop by and speak with us for well over 20
minutes on the issue and stood in full support of what we were doing.

So, for starters, I think I have exhausted you enough. Should you have
ANY questions, by all means, feel free to contact me at:
TulsaFathers@h....
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The Tulsa, Oklahoma Vigil will take place starting at 8am at the Tulsa
County Courthouse on Denver Ave & 5th, between the Tulsa County
Courthouse and the Central Library, ending time ?

Contact:
Gregory Romeo
Tulsa Area Fathers Rights Association TulsaFathers@y...




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Gregory Romeo
State Information on Each State's Class Action Lawsuit for Non
Custodial Parents https://www.quickbase.com/db/99r7qj9f

http://tulsafathers.org
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Tulsa_Area_Fathers_Rights_Association
http://milliondadsmarch.org
Boycott Info to: http://pissonfoc.com/64814/index.html

Official MDM Print Shop Sign-Maker for ALL groups and individuals.
http://www.yardsigns.org

srieb@g... ~ European Coordinator http://www.marchamadrid2004.tk

MEDIA
http://hisside.com
KRights Radio http://www.krightsradio.com
BSI International http://www.bsi-international.com
Truth Television http://www.onsecondthought.tv
http://www.mensnewsdaily.com

YOU'RE FUNDING YOUR DOOM!
http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/vawo/stategrants.htm
WORLDWIDE LINKS
http://www.mk-mens-aid.0catch.com/WORLD%20LINKS.htm
http://www.thetruthandjusticefoundation.org
http://www.mensdefense.org/
http://www.stephenbaskerville.net
http://www.fathers-4-justice.org