Messy divorce/custody battle with a NARCISSIST...

[VaBtrfly]

I'm not sure if anyone out there has any experience with this subject but, here goes... my best friend is in the middle of a divorce from his N wife. Things have gotten extremely out of control, especially with the custody of the minor children, (one of which suffers from mental illness). After years of being emotionally and psychologically abused by her, he is understandably gunshy in how he deals with her. We have both read every article we can find but, real life experience might prove more beneficial. Any ideas or advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks so much!