extra curriculars

[Bradley]

Does my daughter have to only be involved in the ones my x wife puts her in or can I put her in activites even though they may compete with hers and on my weekeneds and on my time take her to the ones I pay for? What about school documents like report cards, notes, picture day I get no notice or an opportunity to get any copies. I am a very active father and am doing all that I am supose to, my new wife has stopped talking to x wife and her family for several months and the x wife is taking me back to court for my new wife harassment? which dosent exsisit and for me not to cut her hair or call outside the hours of 7-8pm and basically so the mother gets to make all the choices and I run around gratefully just to see my daughter. This is co-parenting in Texas right... WRONG

[MYSONSDAD]

What does your court order say? Most parenting plans will stippulate that no activities on the other parents time. If you chose to have her participate in activites on your time, your cost, not much mommy can say about it, unless the order says different.

As far as the school records.

Access To School and Medical Records - State Statutes - OHIO Through WYOMING and DC
This page contains information on accessing your child's school and medical records, including a list of State Statutes related to accessing school and medical records.
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Family Educational Rights And Privacy Act (FERPA)
This page contains the full text of the Family Educational Rights And Privacy Act (FERPA). FERPA specifies that school records are to be accessible by both parents, unless an order exists in your Parenting Plan stating otherwise.
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[Bradley]

There is no parenting plan... There is no statements about extra curriculars of yet, I can probably expect she is going to try to put some in there though to keep my wife and I from getting involved with activities not on our weekends.
I don't think she will get very far, but in texas it is a mothers state...
Do you have any examples of parenting plans?

[MYSONSDAD]

In one of the parenting plans, there is one which has wording concerning extra curricular activites. Ask for more, and then you have some flexibily to the outcome.

1. Avoiding Parenting Plan Mistakes
We see divorced couples going back to court frequently for post-divorce litigation and mediation. Often, what brings them back are errors, omissions and oversights in their original parenting plans. Listed in this article are some of the most common mistakes and oversights related to parenting plans.
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2. Sample Parenting Plan (Comprehensive)
This example of a comprehensive Parenting Plan is geared towards Joint legal and physical custody. Most foreseeable situations are covered in this Parenting Plan, but you will want to read it carefully and make changes based on your particular situation.
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3. Interstate / Long-Distance Joint Custody Parenting Plan
This Joint Custody Parenting Plan has been designed to address the needs of parents whose residences are substantial distances apart (such as in different States).
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4. Sample Parenting Plan (For Military Personnel)
This is one example of a Permanent Parenting Plan (PPP) that has been designed to address some of the issues that occur when one or both parents are in the military.
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5. Sample Parenting Evaluation Report (3)
EOM; // set meta keywords $meta_keys EOM; // set header code $header_code Sample Parenting Evaluation Report (3) NOTE: This is an actual Parenting Evaluation Report. For the sake of...
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6. Suggested Parenting Plan Stipulations
These items should be included in almost any Parenting Plan. Many are standard stipulations that are often overlooked when the Parenting Plan is written. These items may need to be modified to suit specific situations, but should serve as a place to start.
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7. Review of ''Parenting After Divorce''
A review of ''Parenting After Divorce''.
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8. Sample Parenting Evaluation Report (2)
This is an actual Parenting Evaluation Report. For the sake of confidentiality, names have been changed and geographic references and other identifying data have been deleted. Minor typographical corrections have been made for reasons of clarity. The content of the report has not been altered.
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9. ''Right Of First Refusal'' Provisions
The ''Right Of First Refusal'' is a provision frequently written into custody orders and parenting plans. The intent of a Right Of First Refusal provision is to maximize the time child spends with both parents, especially the non-custodial parent, whose time is normally limited to begin with.
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