Bi Polar Ex living in trailer park with that has sex registrants

[sdbleve]

Hello,,

I have been lurking for a while and I thank all of you for the info that I have found.

Quick bio and then question/request for info.

My ex left a bit over 4 years ago. When she left she took our sons (now 11 and 12 with her. It took all summer that first year, but I finally got them back home when school started. For the past 4 yrs I have been the custodial parent with the boys living with me during the school year, staying with their mother on the weekends, and long holidays. For most of the past 4 yrs, ex has lived in a vaction RV resort about 25 miles away.

I recently found out that ex has been diagnosed with Bi Polar. It explains alot of her behavior over the last 10 yrs. I also recently found out that there are 2 sex registrants living at the same RV resort. They are full time residents and work at the park.  Well long story short, after a month of common sense, (living some where else), the ex now wants to move back to the trailer park. I am uncomfortible with this scenerio. I plan on speaking with my lawyer on Monday (this was all sprung on me Friday evening at 830 pm) to see what I can do.

There are other problems going on (custody and support) but to me they take a back seat to the possible danger of my kids living in the same park as the sex offenders. I don't feel that the ex can sufficiently care for the boys due to her Bi Polor disorder. She has told me in the past that her meds make her sleepy...so sleepy to the extent that she has to take other meds to help her stay awake.

Have any of you ever dealt with any prolems like this? I am in San Diego County.

David

[sdbleve]

Sorry,

Just saw the title I typed. I meant that there are sex regestrants living in the park, not with the ex.

[ocean]

Bi-polar can be medicated but she needs to get the medications correct. It takes a few weeks for the meds to start working and sometimes they need to be changed to get the right ones. The meds do make people tired especially the first couple of weeks. Bi-polar is not a reason not to have visitation (may custodial parents have it). If she is neglectful than you have a case. You could have her visitation depend on if she goes to the dr monthly and therapy weekly.
As far the sex offenders...I really do not know. It depends on the conditions of their release. Some of them can live around children but not schools. I know here, you can go to the school district and look at the list and it has some info about each one. We get called from the school that a sex offender moved into the district. You just need to teach your children safety rules.
Good luck!