Lawyer or Pro se for paternity?

[dancurry]

That must be a local form. I've never heard of it.

[chardog]

I turned in the judgement october 4 or so.  It's been over a month, how long does this process usually take?

The reason I ask is that DCSS still wants me in court dec. 4.  My lawyer told me to forward the judgement to the dcss when it's signed by the judge.

is there any other way to avoid court in december?  The bm seems like she has changed her stance and may wage war again.

She wants me to pay child support, but for the last few months, I've been having my son 4 days out of the week, overnights, and the days that she has him overnight, she's been leaving him with me til night time.  In other words, she has my son for 1 full day and 2 evening/nights.  I have him the rest of the time.

to be less confusing, here's the schedule:

Sunday:  Father
Monday:  Father
Tuesday: Mother(after 7:30PM when she picks up my son)
Wednsday:  Father
Thursday:  Mother(after 7:30PM when she picks up my son)
Friday:  Father
Saturday: Mother

Starting next month, She wants me to take care of him everyday except saturday.  Can I postpone my date for DCSS court?  I want to gather this evidence.