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[bdpandthensome]

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[maid marion]

If possible, try and document the attempts to visit and her responses(Excuses) Sounds like you'll be back in court. If you don't have any documentation then it's his word against hers. (Tape recordings are great if they are legal in your state. E-Mails. Letters, anything you can do to show proof of the attempted visits.)
If she files another restraining order make sure to bring up the 3 that have been dismissed. I know it's a hassle to have to keep going and defending himself but each time it's thrown out is just one more for him to show the judge.They'll eventually see that she's abusing the system and her credibility will be hurt.
As far as where he takes the kids during his day visits, don't think that's any of her business. The over nights may be as she should know where there staying.
Finally, try to get a couple free consultations with differant attorneys and see what they have to say.
Good luck, Maid Marion

[patton]

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[lawless]

Curious...why are these posts deleted?
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[Dez]

Me too!