I wrote a letter to DD's BF.

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The plan is to give it to him tomorrow.  (I don't have an actual address for him, to be able to mail it)

Basicly I wanted to let him know that whether or not he files a parenting plan, that there will be one filed, and that if he wanted we could agree on one and Co-File.

I also told him, that when I try to fill papers out, I get stuck as I don't know his schedule, or the things he wants/requests.  SO I thought I would let him know what I will be requesting.  So he knows where I stand, and then he can respond to it how he wishes.

I guess my hope is that, if he sees that I'm not wanting anything unreasonable, and that I am willing to be flexible and work with him.  That my goal, is for him and DD to have a consistent relationship.  Then maybe he'd be more willing to just work it out ourselves then file, or co-file.