PAS CASE WHERE FATHER WON

[catholicmom]

So, she lost custody because the judge saw her as unable to be civil to the father? That is what I want to avoid. I must, no matter what, be unfailingly civil when dealing with my son's father.

It did make me cringe to read where she was pressured to have an abortion, though. I've seen that situation before and it just makes my blood run cold.

I hope there's an opportunity for the mother to have a change of heart, then demonstrate that she can handle true joint custody.

Gotta pray for the twins, though - this is going to be hard on them. Their mother apparently  has done NOTHING to aclimate them to the idea of their father, so this will be tough.

[SallyandJack]

catholicmom - i think your post is very thoughtful.

i am a sm...and have seen the effects of PAS first hand.  There are huge psychological implications for the children when they are pas'ed.  There is tons of reading material on this site about it.  IMO, it is pretty much psychological abuse towards the children.  It goes way beyond not being able to be civil to the other parent.  I feel terrible for my sd given what her mom has done and continues to do.  There is just no reason for it.

i think that most non-custodial parents just want to do what is right.  they just want a fair shake. pas'ing goes both ways.  the father could have custody and pas against the mom.  but i think we see more cases where the mom is custodial and pas'es against the dad.

i think that Ms Marks is just hurting her case with all the media involvement.  what she really needs to do is get herself into serious therapy and show the courts (not the rest of us via her media campaign) that she realized she was wrong and she is working towards regaining joint custody - or at least unsupervised parenting time.

[MYSONSDAD]

She got EXACTLY what she deserved!

The only thing she accomplished was giving her daughters a horrible memory that they will carry with them the rest of their lives. That is not love.

I applaude the Judge for reading between the lines and seeing the truth.

I applaude his current wife for the courage it took to stand beside him.

My only question: How much did 'Media Mom' receive for the movie rights?

 
"Children learn what they live"

[Peanutsdad]

The only thing I've seen exposed by the media,, is what a sick ticket THIS mother IS. If this is going to help anyone,, it's going to help parents who have themselves and their children subjected to alienation tactics.

[MYSONSDAD]

If a man did this, what would you say?

Bottom line is the Judge saw thru her. Wish there were more like this Judge out there.

False allegations and lies should be taken into consideration. 99% of the time, they are not. This Mom would have brought up her daughters with no sense of values. Lying is wrong, alienation is wrong, false allegations is wrong, putting these girls under that kind of stress is wrong...

Need I say more?

'Children learn what they live"

[Troubledmom]

1. Father did not tell mother to abort the child... his wife did

2. Father was in and out for 4 years and ONLY filed for visitation rights until the woman who calls herself the children's mother started a smear campaign against him. Lying and promoting her children to lie.

3. It was at that point he ammended his petition to sole custodial... after that poor excuse attempted to lie and decieve to maintain possession hoping for that grand child support award.

4. She has emotionally abused those children in more ways than one. The children will forever be scared by their mother's inability to learn what most people learn in kindergarten.

If she were so concerned about her children, she would not put them through the trauma of the last two years.

TM

[NeverGiveUp]

I beginning to think that 'LovingMom" has some vested interest in the benefits of PAS.  I can't help but question the motive for supporting an alienating parent . . . unles of course you are one.

I would expect that every warped thinking mother in the country will be up in arms over this one. As well they should be.  Let em sweat!

[NeverGiveUp]

For those of you that have never been accused of molesting your children, it really sucks! It's unconscionable and takes a warped mind.  Children do NOT belong with people that are willing to stoop to this level.


"Last week, the children were taken from their mother by court order. Judge Arlene Goldberg gave custody to casino mogul John Aylsworth, 54, and longtime wife Karen, because she found Marks was poisoning the girls' relationship with their father by coaching them to say he had molested them."

Three cheers for Arlene Goldberg.  Now two beautiful children will be allowed to grow up without feeling guilty about loving their parents.