ROYAL MESS IN MARYLAND!!!!!!!

[fourstarrb]

 Got a real DOOZIE here for you. I live in Maryland. My daughter's father and I have joint legal custody
 and he has the primary physical. I had to take him to court years ago (1995) and this is where the
 court order came up. He and his wife moved to PA 3 yrs ago. I allowed the move with my daughter
since we were not really having any major problems.
 WITH THE EXCEPTION HIS WIFE IS MAJORLY PAS'ing my daughter. Tell him about it and he says
I have the ego problem.
Fast forward almost 8 yrs. Now 3 yrs ago, they took me to court to have my rights terminated so his
wife could adopt my daughter. Least to say, the judge saw thru all their BS and threw it out.
Now this idiot has split from his wife. And guess where my daughter is. He left her in PA with her!!!!!
I hit the roof!!!!!!!! HE is living in Delaware now.
Told him that she is living with him like order states or with me but your BFH is not keeping her!!!
NOW, I find out that she has moved her new boyfriend into the house with his 2 kids too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hit the roof again. Told him that I will take him back to court if my daughter is not gotten away from
her and back here. He says that THEY discussed it(referring to him and his BFH) and they said
that is where she is staying. I said your BFH has NO SAY!!!!!!!!
I am filing the papers to modify the custody to me, but what are my chances of getting her and
keeping her here and not in PA? She is coming for 2 weeks on Saturday and I want to go to court
for an emergency hearing while she is here. I know if I take her back to him in 2 weeks he will only
take her back to his former BFH!!   ADVICE NEEDED.
Anyone else dealt with this>>>

Thanks in advance,

[Peanutsdad]

hehehe,, aint seen this scenerio in a bit now. But hey,, gotta luv modern american society.

Get an attorney. File in court for custody due to changed circumstances with dad.

I'm not sure about being able to file an ex parte hearing if the child is not in danger.


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THE SPECTRUM OF PARENTAL ALIENATION SYNDROME (PART I)
Parental Alienation Syndrome is a distinctive family response to divorce in which the child becomes aligned with one parent and preoccupied with unjustified and/or exaggerated denigration of the other target parent.
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12. Mediation And Parental Alienation Syndrome by Anita Vestal
This article looks at parental alienation syndrome (PAS), which is a complex manifestation of mental and emotional abuse resulting from conflicted parents fighting for custody.
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13. Recommendations for Dealing with Parents Who Induce a Parental Alienation Syndrome in Their Children
PAS is commonly seen in highly contested child-custody disputes. The author has described three types: mild, moderate, and severe, each of which requires special approaches by both legal and mental health professionals.
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14. THE SPECTRUM OF PARENTAL ALIENATION SYNDROME (PART II)
Studies of target parents who are falsely accused of abuse report they tend to be less disturbed than their accusing counterparts.
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15. THE SPECTRUM OF PARENTAL ALIENATION SYNDROME (PART II)
Parental Alienation Syndrome is a distinctive family response to divorce in which the child becomes aligned with one parent and preoccupied with unjustified and/or exaggerated denigration of the other target parent.
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16. Parental Alienation Information Archive
All the information on the SPARC site regarding Parental Alienation has been consolidated on this central reference page.
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17. THE SPECTRUM OF PARENTAL ALIENATION SYNDROME (PART II) (cont.)
In the following case, the accused father was an officer in the military. Testimony on PAS by the defense expert provided the judge and jury with some alternative explanations as to the reasons the children accused their stepfather of abuse.
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18. THE SPECTRUM OF PARENTAL ALIENATION SYNDROME (PART I)
Parental Alienation Syndrome is a distinctive family response to divorce in which the child becomes aligned with one parent and preoccupied with unjustified and/or exaggerated denigration of the other target parent.
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19. Expanding the Parameters of PAS
The newness of the parental alienation syndrome (PAS) compels its redefinition and refinement as new cases are observed and the phenomenon becomes better understood.
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20. PAS: How to Detect It and What to Do About It
Although parental alienation syndrome (PAS) is a familiar term, there is still a great deal of confusion and unclarity about its nature, dimensions, and, therefore, its detection.
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