Custody Evaluation Interview Followup

[painfree]

 It's my understanding that there's around 2 weeks after the custody evaluation to get additional information to the evaluator. This is the way I understood things from the Evaluators assistant. There were a few areas of concern where I feel I've not made my position clear. Is it considered a good idea to call evaluator to speak with him? Or is it good idea to write a letter instead? Or neither of the above, Do nothing? The evaluation was 11/24/04  
Thanks
 

[onedaddy]

We called our evaluator about 1-2 weeks after the process was complete at our lawyer suggestion to notify him that BM had informed us that she already purchased a new home even further away, the 6th move in 2 years and the 5th school.  We only left a message.

We also sent the evaluator a 14 page chronology of all the events that have taken place in since the divorce with back-up to show what we said was more than hear-say.

I would write a letter, you can get more out and are sure of what you are saying.

[shawneetears]

I agree.  A letter would be better than a phone call, though consider calling to be sure the letter was recieved (even if you do RRR you want to be sure YOUR evaluator got it) and to see if their are any questions.  Keep a copy of your correspondence and the RR just in case.

wish you all the best life has to offer!  :)

[Lunarbunny]

I agree that it would be best to send a letter and then call to make sure that the letter was received.

Just last Friday DH had to go to an unexpected follow-up session with the evaluator.  During that final session the evaluator asked DH about some accusations that his X made after her interviews had already been completed.  These accusations were made via phone call.  The evaluator said that after that he now had everything that he needed to write his report.  So I say do both.