SERIOUS ISSUE, PLEASE HELP!

[evalisto2005]

An officer from where BM lives called me today to let me know of [false]

allegations of telephone harrassment. I was about to defend myself and he

told me to let him finish, then he would listen to me, and that he thought I'd

like what he was going to tell me.

He said not to worry because my text messages that I sent to BM weere not

harrassment and were only about my son's well being, and he let her know

that too. One thing BM complained about was that I said our son needs to

be away from the house he lives in because BM's mom sells crack. BM

admitted her mom's drug problem to the officer, he ran her mom's name and

saw that there is [another] case pending against BM's mom for possession of

cocaine (or crack) with intent to deliver (12 grams).

He said that since there is a child involved he had to call DCFS. He told

me the name of the person that's in charge of the investigation and gave

me the false report #. In the report he said what BM's mom is doing and

that BM keeps trying to have me arrested for phone harrasment when I'm

not even harrassing her. He told me to pick up the report. I said I thought

it was illegal for the alleged criminal to get the report. He then told me to

tell my lawyer to get the report ASAP and to try to get it myself at the

station and he said that it would prove some things to help my case and

the well being of my child.

I left a message for my lawyer with all details. But ALSO, some one from

Special Ops called me. I answered some questions and he said that they

now can search very car that leaves BM's place and they will keep the

place under serious surveilance, and said to go ahead and call him with

any questions in 4 days to see what's going on.

DCFS NEVER does their job in my state until they're on the news, and BM

lives at a dead end so it would take Rambo to keep look out and not get

noticed. Also, a crack head/crack ealer would know how to hide their stash

and do something so that dogs could ot sniff it out. I can not call DCFS

because they said that if I call them again they will have me arrested for

making false reports. They HATE hearing "custody battle". And I feel that

the efforts of the police may do no good because I don't think that BM's

mom always does deals right from that house.

Other than providing my lawyer with all documentation along with

providing the police with certain info, what can I do (if anything)?

I'm sorry for panicing, I'm just more worried. I knew about the situation

but am afraid that the system may give up, or may have my son taken

away (because BM would rather have that than me having custody).

[worriedmom]

Ok, first of all, drug dogs can not be fooled. They will find the drugs if there are any. I am a cop and have never heard of such a thing. Second of all the way youre describing it it kind of sounds like the cops are doing all they can and you need to trust them. Every little bit helps, any kind of documentation. I know how DFS is because that is how they are here in Missouri. I called DFS because I was told by a reliable source that my ex offered my son a joint at his house. DFS told me that weed was a "lifestyle choice" and that they could not do anything unless it directly harms my child. So you just need to document and use anything you can get your hands on that will even remotely help. I am going through hell myself. My heart goes out to you and your child. I hope it all ends well and the best way for your child.

[evalisto2005]

Thank you and sorry for posting incoherently, I am just scared to death.

Since DCFS never wants to touch anything after they hear "custody battle"

I gave them a little time before I checked up on the case. It turns out that

even though the police have proven admissions and documentation, they did

not open an investigation! They told me to let my lawyer handle it. They said

before that I was lying and now I have more proof but they do nothing.

Is how ************ up the system is the issue? Of course not. My son's well

being is. But I've done what I could and will keep doing what I can. But I still

feel the need to use my first ammendment rights and give them a legal

verbal beating like they could not imagine and when I have nothing to do

I want to post their info all over. I just don't know how to do it legally and

won't waste my time figuring out how to for now.


No offense, but I've been told by reliable sources that dogs can be fooled

still. Even with the FBI. I appreciate everything you said and even just that

you read this. Thank you again.

[worriedmom]

I totally understand your concern, i would be freaking out too. Opening an investigation is not your lawyer's job. There are illegal drugs involved, it is the police officers job to put them away for possessing it if they find it. I dotn understand why its the lawyers job. And dont go off on them, that will make things worse and yes your son is the issue but the system is what will get him home but they need to do their job. I would talk to your lawyer about them not investigating.