False allegations of Sexual Abuse Won't End

[DLH1230]

My son is being barraged with false allegations of sexual abuse of his 4 year old daughter that supposedly happened during visitation at my home.  He has joint custody and the mother has refused him visits, has tried everything she can to get him out of the picture.  She really is unstable.  He has always been the primary caregiver in CA until she violated court orders and dragged her to AZ w/o anyone's permission in 11/2011. No one seems  to be listening. Her recent attempts using Dr's. visits, child protective services, police agencies and an OP did not work and charges were dropped.  However, she is trying to add new and improved charges to get it all reopened. 

In the meantime my son can no see his daughter because she refuses.  The judge was clearly on her side and was giving her advice on how to proceed right there in court.  Really???

  The Joint Custody agreement is from CA and nothing has been transferred to A because he keeps having to dodge all these other bullets.  Where does he turn now.  He has used up most of his $ already and his daughter is now a product of Parental Alienation and no one seems to listen. Please tell us where to turn in Arizona for help.

We have the documents and proof, we just need some guidance as to how to proceed before she has him thrown in jail.

[DadsCrushed]

If you have a current final order, I would do the following:

1. Forget about PAS; most states don't recognize it and it will cost you thousands for an expert;
2. Immediately file where there is jurisdiction a Petition for Contempt (Denial of Visitation) and do it for each scheduled exchange where the mother is absent
3. After the nonsense is "Ruled Out" or unfounded, consider a Motion for Modification.

The mother is "shopping" for "specialists" who will support her. She may not be found in Contempt because she will state she is not in willfull disobedience because she feared for the children. If she has NOT filed something with Social Services, then her case is further weakened.

[sunlitbeauty]

I can relate!
I am a father who lives in BC who has been falsely accused of sexual abuse of my now 9 year old daughter who lives with my mother.
I am a retired veteran of the Canadian Forces who lives on a limited pension.
I support my wife and three children (excluding my 9 year old daughter), aged 6yrs, 3yrs and 1 yrs old.
I do not have money due to my limited income for the services of an attorney, and my mother is denying access to my daughter at present.
Are there any advocates in Canada that could help me with this situation?
I do not believe that it is in the best interests of my daughter to not be able to see me.
This is not the first time that my mom has disobeyed a court order, and denied access.
It is my hope that there might be an advocate out there that could help me with this delicate situation.
The incident was submitted to protective services (Called The Ministry of Children and Families up here in Canada), and it was immediately dismissed by them. There was never an order, nor an investigation. This would probably be due to the fact that nothing has ever occurred of this nature between myself and my daughter. As I stated, I have three other children that I live with with my wife of 7 years. My other daughter would never say anything of this nature about me, as I am a very loving father and I have never abused my children. I have abused myself in doing back breaking work in order to support my family (12 hours shifts doing concrete hi-rise forming, ie. building towers) out of love for my kids to be able to have a good life, and to have the things that they need. I joined the military after the recession back in 2008 destroyed any chance I had of employment as a Journeyman Carpenter. I was injured while serving in the Canadian Forces, and I now live on a very limited income to support my wife and four children with. This issue came up around Christmas, and my oldest daughter has not received her presents to this date, and I am afraid to the amount of brainwashing that my mother (her grandmother) is subjecting her to.
I am afraid that if this is allowed to go too far, that my other three kids may lose access to me, their loving father. I have read about cases where the judge has decided to remove access in family court even when no clear evidence of a sexual offence is present. I served my country, had my livelihood taken away from me due to the severe nature of my injury(chronic pain in my lower back and left leg, which is partially paralyzed, plus three compressed discs from my military service), and now I am having the one thing threatened that I value more than anything else...access to my children, and their right to have their father, a true family man, taken away from them!