HELP- visitation problem & letter to X's attorney

[taboalien]

Thought I'd try to post this over here for some help........ I need to write this letter before Monday morning.


 
#1422, "Need some advice on how to word a letter to an attorney"
Sat Apr-24-04 01:46 AM by taboalien

           Hi Soc

Been a long time since I've been on here. Brief background- ex wife was denying visitation forever, we finally got in front of a judge and he nailed her butt, we are now able to fly the boys here if we so choose. PBFH behaved for 15 mths, and allowed the boys to be taken out of school 30 minutes early nearly every time to get them to the airport in time, she was never happy about it but she did it.

We asked for the boys last weekend- flight left at 5:50- 30 minutes later than all previous flights have left & she says NO at 8PM the night before they are due here- she had the itinerary for over 2 wks.

I have emailed, mailed & faxed one letter to her attorney and have gotten NO response of any kind from him & he will not take mine or hubby's phone calls- in the letter we requested this weekend for makeup time.

Ex wife is not putting the boys on the flights again. I want to request next weekend AGAIN for makeup time.

#1- How should I word the letter? #2 request for makeup time???? or what?

#2- Can we keep requesting weekends like this & if she refuses, file contempt on her for each time?

Thanks so much Soc & others- ya'lls information before has proved so helpful in the past.
 
 
 
 

[Brent]

>#1- How should I word the letter? #2 request for makeup
>time???? or what?
>
>#2- Can we keep requesting weekends like this & if she
>refuses, file contempt on her for each time?

Start sending these to her and cc: the attorney and the Clerk of the Court too:

Notice Of Intent To Exercise Visitation
http://www.deltabravo.net/custody/intent.htm

Denial Of Visitation Form Letter
http://www.deltabravo.net/custody/missed-visit.htm

If you aren't already keepig meticulous records of the denied time, start doing so immediately. Get yourself either the PTT or the OPTIMAL Custody Tracking service at: http://www.parentingtime.net. The PTT is good, but the OPTIMAL service is better, especially if it looks like you may go to court.

[taboalien]

Thanks Brent!!

I used those before back when she was giving us all the trouble.  She has been behaving so we haven't needed to use them, but it looks like I might have to again.

Meanwhile I gotta figure out how to get her attorney to know I'm not some schmuck he can ignore- I may not have a law degree but I know what I'm talking about here.  I find it totally unacceptable that he can't even send me a letter or fax or anything..........