To: InTheMiddle...

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We do have a yearly IEP and thats part of the reason things went so smoothly at our end, Sons been working with the school for psychologist for about 2 years now.

My bigger concerns were whether the stepsons school overstepped their bounds in calling our school before social services even opened and investigation.

And of course the concerns that I have, but seen to have escaped DH about the 8 yr old with the animals.

If you missed that part there is post concerning animal cruelty, I think I posted that on the parenting issues board.

Thanks and if you have any suggested books or websites that I could information from  Please let me know!!