help anybody there meeting w/x in am

[kimwri0123]

This cannot be good, ex & I talked about my oldest son wanting to live w/me. Ex works out of the country 28days and is home 28days, and my son is not happy w/stepmom when he is gone, but he's afraid to talk to dad b/c he always takes her side. He has no backbone when it comes to her. Ex says the reason there is so much animosity is b/c of son lying to both of us. Well I know he's a teenager and is probably playing us to some extent, but I dont think I can handle her coming into my house and calling him a liar. what should i do? they will be here 8am and i told him that this was between him and i but he says that if son blames stepmom for something then she should be here to. I just think that the three of us should set down before he brings her into my house to disrepect my kids. they live w/them and she controls everything, bigtime. I am not a jealous person, ex and i used to get along great til they married. and her and i were fine at first until my parenting time was up to her.

[tigger]

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