just a few ?'s to ease my mind:

[Stepmom0418]

Soc,

There was a mediation agreement met.

BM had continously not followed by the agreement.

The agreement has not been ordered by a judge.

Dh attorney sent BM attorney a letter saying we are no longer following the agreement and that we are following the temp court order.
 (the only thing signed by the judge.) The letter is dated August 5th.

DH sent a letter certified return reciept that BM signed for. It states the pick up drop off points and times (the same ones as in the temp co.)

The temp co says that Dh is to pick up ss at bm residence at 8pm on friday and that bm is to pick up ss at dh residence on sunday.

BM called and left a voice message on Friday saying that if we dont meet her at xx town and station like the agreement says then SS will not go.

Dh and I both spoke to her and told her that we were following the CO and we will be at her residence at 8pm.

BM says she is not in contempt because she never said ss could not go.

We arrived and ss was not there and neither was bm.

Called the police and got a complaint filed and also got a copy of it.

There is a current custody trial but no date yet. Should have a date the first of the week.



Questions:

1) Is Bm in contempt?

2) Any suggestions for us in regards to the aove?

[socrateaser]

>1) Is Bm in contempt?

Well, it depends on the existing court orders, and whether they in some way permit the parties to agree on alternative parenting arrangements. So, I don't really know

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>2) Any suggestions for us in regards to the aove?

BBQ ribs for Labor Day.