Questions for you

[Confused stepmom]

My boyfriend has 4 kids (all 4 different mothers).  Yes I know he needs to cut it off!  But I have a few questions.

1.  If mother #1 doesn't like mother #4 can she say that she wont bring the child over anymore, it has to go by court order right?

2.  Mother #1 can't dictate who he can be with or be around her child right?  when its dads visitation I mean.  

3.  Mother #3 is sucking him dry for child support, how can we get a reduction in child support.  

thanks!

[socrateaser]

>My boyfriend has 4 kids (all 4 different mothers).  Yes I
>know he needs to cut it off!  But I have a few questions.
>
>1.  If mother #1 doesn't like mother #4 can she say that she
>wont bring the child over anymore, it has to go by court order
>right?

Well, cutting "IT" off, may be a little extreme, but yeah, he should consider using a condom.

Depends on the specific custody orders -- maybe so, maybe not.

>
>2.  Mother #1 can't dictate who he can be with or be around
>her child right?  when its dads visitation I mean.  

Same answer as #1, above.

>
>3.  Mother #3 is sucking him dry for child support, how can we
>get a reduction in child support.  

Depends on the law of the State with jurisdiction over support order #3, and the current financial circumstances of the child's mother and father.

I really can't answer without knowing the specifics.