Urgent help

[Dez]

Greetings Soc,

My son is currently in the state of WA where I reside. They (CP and my son) are staying in a motel for the next 5-7 days here in state, and I want to visit my son! (He was the one who called me to wish me a happy father's day.)

They are in a motel, I have the room number from my son, Mom won't let me see him.

Questions:

1. Can I just drive up there and get a hug & some kisses?

2. Can she prevent me from seeing my son because it's not in the court ordered visitation plan?

Damn, she already got to move him 3K miles away! What do you think I should do? I really want to see my boy...it's been 20 months already!

Help Soc! And thanks...'cause I know you're good!

[socrateaser]

>Questions:
>
>1. Can I just drive up there and get a hug & some kisses?

It depends on what your court orders state. If you don't have the right to exercise visitation/custody, then she can legally keep the kid away from you, and even call the police to help. As I haven't read the exact text of your orders, my conclusion must be that while you can go, she can refuse to permit you to see the child.

>
>2. Can she prevent me from seeing my son because it's not in
>the court ordered visitation plan?

Yes. See above.

>
>Damn, she already got to move him 3K miles away! What do you
>think I should do? I really want to see my boy...it's been 20
>months already!

I think you should obey the court orders. I can't advise you any other way, no matter how much I'd like to.