Don't know if this is the right board for my question, but....

[Neversaynever]

DH went to court on CS case.  BM mentions that she has had something going on with newborn and the judge says:  You have another child?  Who's support him?      And BM says:  Oh, the dad lives in the home with us.      Judge looks at her and just sits there shaking her head.  Obviously it mattered to DH's judge.