need help establishing paternity and visitation

[Justin_delray]

I am looking for help and/or advice, not sure if your agency can help.

I need to establish paternity, or rule myself out, which ever may be the case.  My girlfriend and I split after 3 years, 3 days before the baby was born.  (7/10/08).  She says he may not be mine.

I was not allowed to be at his birth and I have not been allowed to see him.

She has all the paper work to file with the state for DNA testing but is refusing to mail it in, or so she has told me.

The girl and I are over, but if I'm the baby's father I want to care for and provide for him, I want to be able to see him.

I need help, this is causing me great stress.

Thanks.

Justin

email address:  [email protected]  

[ocean]

Go down to your local court house and file for a paternity test. You can do this on your own. Then I would get a lawyer to help you file for visitation if you are the father.

[BusyMom]

Edit your post and remove your last name.

There are alot of crazies that surf these boards, you don't want some weirdo stalking you.

Also, post what state you are in as these laws can vary from state to state.

You may even want to remove your e-mail address.  You can ask people to send you a private message through the board, that way your e-mail is not out there for the weirdo's to send you spam.

[Justin_delray]

Im in Illinois

Thanks