How can I get them back???

[I cry_ in_the_dark]

Thanks for your support. But it's not that easy.

I am fortunate that I am highly valued at work, and they have graciously re-arranged my schedule to accomodate my visitations. I do 2 different jobs at work. I had to remove myself from the better paying job in order to accomodate the visitation. I work some really screwy hours as a result, but I can't argue with that, as they are being very flexible for me.

It would break my kids hearts, as well as mine,  if I didn't take them every other weekend.
And unfortunately, as much as I'd like to believe you, I am responsible to pay part of his daycare. My problem with that is my son goes to daycare whether it is necessary or not, and I don't feel I should be responsible for THAT. I guess I'll find out in January when we go to court.

The daycare, on my part, would only be necessary in the summer months when I've been granted one week in June, two in July, and one in August, and you can bet they WILL be with me!

Thanks again for your support.