Adverse Court child assessors report

[5cents]

I am currently going through a judicial separation. On legal advice approximately 1 year ago I moved out of the family home , and there is an interim court  consent order in place whereby our two young girls (2 yrs and 5 yrs) are c 50% of the time with their Dad and Mom respectively. we both have houses less than 1 mile apart.

The court appointed a child custody assessor's (child psychologist) report lists all the nasty allegations my wife has made against myself (which are untrue) in his report, and is looking for sole custody , move away from the family home approximately 170 miles to her home town, with the offer that I could have a few hours access every second Sunday.  I didn't attack her at all in the assessment and proposed joint custody, c50 % each. We both work fulltime, but my job allows me to work from home c80% of the time. I am also able to show my extensive time spent prior to the separation in bringing up the girls.

Now , his recommendation is to drastically reduce the girls time with their day to 1 overnight at the weekend.

Have you any advice on how I can challenge this report  ? as it is very biased in favour of the mother.

[mistoffolees]

>I am currently going through a judicial separation. On legal
>advice approximately 1 year ago I moved out of the family home
>, and there is an interim court  consent order in place
>whereby our two young girls (2 yrs and 5 yrs) are c 50% of the
>time with their Dad and Mom respectively. we both have houses
>less than 1 mile apart.
>
>The court appointed a child custody assessor's (child
>psychologist) report lists all the nasty allegations my wife
>has made against myself (which are untrue) in his report, and
>is looking for sole custody , move away from the family home
>approximately 170 miles to her home town, with the offer that
>I could have a few hours access every second Sunday.  I didn't
>attack her at all in the assessment and proposed joint
>custody, c50 % each. We both work fulltime, but my job allows
>me to work from home c80% of the time. I am also able to show
>my extensive time spent prior to the separation in bringing up
>the girls.
>
>Now , his recommendation is to drastically reduce the girls
>time with their day to 1 overnight at the weekend.
>
>Have you any advice on how I can challenge this report  ? as
>it is very biased in favour of the mother.

I would not even attempt this on your own. Get a GOOD attorney.

Your description of how the report was developed is sketchy. If you provide more details about how it was done, that would help to assess your chances. For example, how much time did the assessor spend with each person involved? Did he/she talk with any other witnesses? Who selected the assessor?

Good luck.

[5cents]

The assessor met both parents separately on 3 occasions and one time each with the girls in both houses.The report is a short report, 7 pages long, simply laid out where the assessor highlights comments from both parents and quickly moves onto discussions/recommendations. Unfortunately he lists my wifes comments (basically an attack on myself and ability as a parent) which sets the tone for the whole report. He uses selctive quotes and and alot of context dropping when referring to my inputs. I gave him a sixty page document listing teh various child parenting areas which I participated on before and after the separation. He states my wife is looking for sole custody while I am looking for a 50/50 set up. He finds that it is a high conflict situation (from my wife who won't co-operate in anything) but her initial attacks at the start of the report have already done damage. Finally he states both girls are doing well, and the have two very caring parents. He recommends
a. The girls should stay in the city and not move away with their mother as its in their best interests  BUT
b. The girls live 'more centrally' with the mother
c. They gilrs have one overnight per week with their father (either Fri or Sat)
d. The father can pick up the girls after school twice a week from 130pm to 430pm (when I then have to drop them back to my wifes childminder as she is at work)

All in all the girls time with their Dad goes from c 50% to 20% which is what I vehemently dis-agree with. I have a good attorney, but they think fighting the court appointed expert would be detrimental, and that if I fight it, thecourt may allow my wife go down the country making the girls access to their Dad even more difficult.
Any advice much appreciated !!

[Jade]

>I am currently going through a judicial separation. On legal
>advice approximately 1 year ago I moved out of the family home
>, and there is an interim court  consent order in place
>whereby our two young girls (2 yrs and 5 yrs) are c 50% of the
>time with their Dad and Mom respectively. we both have houses
>less than 1 mile apart.
>
>The court appointed a child custody assessor's (child
>psychologist) report lists all the nasty allegations my wife
>has made against myself (which are untrue) in his report, and
>is looking for sole custody , move away from the family home
>approximately 170 miles to her home town, with the offer that
>I could have a few hours access every second Sunday.  I didn't
>attack her at all in the assessment and proposed joint
>custody, c50 % each. We both work fulltime, but my job allows
>me to work from home c80% of the time. I am also able to show
>my extensive time spent prior to the separation in bringing up
>the girls.
>
>Now , his recommendation is to drastically reduce the girls
>time with their day to 1 overnight at the weekend.
>
>Have you any advice on how I can challenge this report  ? as
>it is very biased in favour of the mother.
>
>

Do you have a lawyer?  

[Jade]

>The assessor met both parents separately on 3 occasions and
>one time each with the girls in both houses.The report is a
>short report, 7 pages long, simply laid out where the assessor
>highlights comments from both parents and quickly moves onto
>discussions/recommendations. Unfortunately he lists my wifes
>comments (basically an attack on myself and ability as a
>parent) which sets the tone for the whole report. He uses
>selctive quotes and and alot of context dropping when
>referring to my inputs. I gave him a sixty page document
>listing teh various child parenting areas which I participated
>on before and after the separation. He states my wife is
>looking for sole custody while I am looking for a 50/50 set
>up. He finds that it is a high conflict situation (from my
>wife who won't co-operate in anything) but her initial attacks
>at the start of the report have already done damage. Finally
>he states both girls are doing well, and the have two very
>caring parents. He recommends
>a. The girls should stay in the city and not move away with
>their mother as its in their best interests  BUT
>b. The girls live 'more centrally' with the mother
>c. They gilrs have one overnight per week with their father
>(either Fri or Sat)
>d. The father can pick up the girls after school twice a week
>from 130pm to 430pm (when I then have to drop them back to my
>wifes childminder as she is at work)
>
>All in all the girls time with their Dad goes from c 50% to
>20% which is what I vehemently dis-agree with. I have a good
>attorney, but they think fighting the court appointed expert
>would be detrimental, and that if I fight it, thecourt may
>allow my wife go down the country making the girls access to
>their Dad even more difficult.
>Any advice much appreciated !!

You stated before that you work from home 80% of the time.  Can you set your own hours?  If so, use that.  Point out how the kids could be with a parent rather than a babysitter or daycare center most of the time.

Since you have the ability to spend more time with them, you should be the primary parent, imo.  

Talk to your attorney about getting a second opinion.  

[mistoffolees]

>All in all the girls time with their Dad goes from c 50% to
>20% which is what I vehemently dis-agree with. I have a good
>attorney, but they think fighting the court appointed expert
>would be detrimental, and that if I fight it, thecourt may
>allow my wife go down the country making the girls access to
>their Dad even more difficult.
>Any advice much appreciated !!


Your attorney is probably right. Escalating a high-conflict situation typically goes in favor of the CP unless there's very good cause.

You haven't given anything there that provides a reason to believe the report could be overturned on the basis of bias. He talked with both parents and with the kids on both houses. He didn't find either parent deficient, but indicated his beleif that one particular option is better for the girls - and gave his reasons.

The only thing left is if there was a major bias in the selection process. For example, if your ex chose the assessor and presented it to the court without you having the option to recommend another or even discuss it there's a slight chance you could do something with it - particularly if there's some relationship bias (the assessor knows your ex or whatever). Barring that, you'd probably be spending a ton of money trying to overturn it - and only make yourself look bad.

Go with your attorney's advice. They know what's going on better than I do or anyone else here. At some point, you have to consider a battle lost and move on to the next one. Jade's advice is good. Accept the report as written and use it to build a case for greater parenting time on your side - using your job flexibility as an advantage.

Good luck.

[5cents]

Yes , have had the same lawyer for a year, she is a family lawyer,,,but isn't creative, and could be a bit more robust in addressing the large number of legal letters I am getting from the other side making various false claims

[5cents]

Thx for the advice,
my own belief and my lawyers is that  because the court assessor recommends my wife should stay in the city, he has counterbalanced that with giving her >80% of the time with the girls. I had previously given him a large amount of information, health, nuttrition, discipline, play activities, education, development AND including my work schedule , which allowed me take care of the girls, none of this seems to have been considered. I know I am stuck with te hreport and he won't change it, but I have asked him for a meeting to 'clarify' why the drastic reduction in the girls time  with their father in favour of teh childminder,,,it doesn't stand up to scrutiny. Similarly he stated there were currently too many shifts between the parents.  
Yes the key question is to either fight the report or work with the assessor over a number of years....either way I am looking at the girls being reduced to less than 20% of their time with their Dad.

[ocean]

This is a report not a judges decision. I would talk to your lawyer about the times they want you to return them to the babysitter and see if you can get more time on those school days. The evaluator is right though...50/50 is only given when BOTH parents can cooperate. The evaluator felt you two could not so she gave BM custody with you the parenting plan. It sounds like you got what most NCP's get...every other weekend and two days during the week. You could maybe also ask on your weekends to make it Fri-sunday (instead of both days during the week). Since mom is not cooperative, go to your lawyer with a DETAILED plan and see if they will accept it. Dates/Times/vacations, summers/pick-up and drop-off spots.....
Good luck!

[Jade]

>Yes , have had the same lawyer for a year, she is a family
>lawyer,,,but isn't creative, and could be a bit more robust in
>addressing the large number of legal letters I am getting from
>the other side making various false claims


Personally, I would get a different lawyer who is more aggressive.  In my opinion, judges don't like to change the status quo.  And if you have been doing 50/50 physical custody to date and the kids are thriving, you can point that out.