Looking for the Ex w/ biggest NERVE (trophy to be awarded)

[sweetpea1]

--Let's see---

--I'm even with prince13 in that my DH's, XW threatened to come after my income before we were even married.  She then threatened ME again with it after we got married.   I laughed in her face.  

--BUT the crowning MOMENT....She called my dh at work to "talk" to him about SD and THEN drum roll please....she told my dh that she was having problems with HER dh and NOW she knew how to please a man in bed (she actually said, "I know how to F@ck, now") , and she'd be willing to SHOW him if he took her back.

My poor dh was so flustered, he ACTUALLY said "No thank you  I'm happy where I am. " She called me after talking to dh to tell me she called  him because , "I don't want you to think I'm going behind your back."  She left out the part where she offered to show him what she's learned since they divorced.  LOL!!! I found out about that later.  

My dh came home that night PISSED told me about it.  He said..."After all you've done for her and SD the NERVE of that...yaddy yadda yadda."  

I took it with a grain of salt and laughed.  Told my dh, "If I recall correctly, it wasn't HOW she F@CKED that was the problem...it was WHO she was F#@king that was the problem. She seems to have forgotten that part."  My dh started cracking up.  --Worse part?  She and I get along very well, but she had enough nerve to say that to my dh.  LOL!! Guess I can't blame her for trying, though.  

[speciallady]

(pbfh reads here and has been known to post here...)

Well, the latest attempt at being yet a bigger PBFH (and I do mean BIGGER!) than she has been over the last 8+ years...

DH's current support ends in June of next year--all arrears will be paid either at that time or shortly there after...

At this last "hour" of support, I mean, paycheck for her, she files to have interest added to arrears--oh, no my friends, not just interest, but compounded interest dating back 10 years!

OH, and she filed an incomplete print out of payments made, of course, so it looks like arrears are really high.
I can't divulge the legalities here (since she reads here) but I do know for a fact "someone" will NOT be getting what she asked for..hehehe.

OH, for the "Biggest Nerve" entry--(besides above)--I have been told over and over again that, in certain circumstances, if the kids had not been around, MY husband would have been "ALL OVER" her...

ummm, sure--right there on the waterslide, right there at the mall, right there at the bowling alley--yep, he'd have jumped her right there!!!

LMAO
and ewwwwwwwwwww--she'a about 240 now!!!

[Dibella]

I just figured out what my username was and got my password.  I couldn't pass this up.

I was going to leave this one alone too; however, thought I'd share too.  Although our custody battle is over as far as the courts go.  PBFH lost all custody,  SO got full legal and physical custody and PBFH has to pay full guideline child support because she refuses to work full-time.  Something about full time work interfering with her access schedule to "her" children.....   anyway!

While we were in the process of the whole court dramas, she put in one of her motions that ... don't laugh too hard.... after one of the SS's basketball tournaments, that was on HER weekend (of which she has told SS's that it's her weekend and they are not allowed to talk to dear old dad on said weekends) while walking out of the building AFTER the game -- prepare yourselves - SO followed her and her "fiance" out to the parking lot.  Thus, SO should be barred from attending games that are on her weekends.  LMAO.  Now, I believe this is the SAME parking lot that we were ALL parked in.  Unless, of course, they assumed we parked in a DIFFERENT parking lot!

[Mamacass]

So BM has done the greedy thing, telling DH when his job changed that she know he makes more money and she's gonna get more money from him.  She also threatened to have CS re-evaluated when we got married since she knows I make good money too.  
But what takes the cake is the crazy things she says.  She isn't fond of me, and actually told my husband "I'll f** her s*** up, and I'll do it while she's having the baby"  (I was pregnant at the time).   Nice, huh?  A few weeks later we were both at an awards assembly for SS, and she had the nerve to come up and start talking to and hugging my 4 y/o. ( who she has barely spoken to before that.)  And she acted confused that I wouldn't want her too close to my kid.  
When we were going to court for custody/relocation she told SS that Daddy wanted to take him away from her.  Funny, b/c she was the one moving 4 hours away (when all her family and ours lives here), and she was cutting our time with SS to about 1/3 of what we had last school year.  She said that if DH could step outside himself for a moment he would see what a great opportunity the move was for SS.  Her reasons for moving?-- supposedly the air is fresher and she would get a new start.  
And she loves to play mind games with SS, especially now that we have custody.  Last week she told SS that someone tried to kill her (not the first time she's said something like that to him).  She also writes him letters telling him to "be tough, soldier"  and "I'll make any sacrifice so that we can be happy again."  He seems happy to me, he's having a blast at school, playing sports, and being with his family.  The only time he acts sad is when he's on the phone with BM.  And no wonder, b/c she tells him that he won't see her till next summer, and that we're keeping him from her.  Not sure how she gets that, when we invite her to his soccer games, and have yet to say no to her requests to have time with him.  
I swear, there is an endless supply of crazy stories about this one.  Forget child support, I wish I could get money for all the stress and and emotional havoc she has wreaked on our lives.  

[WhatToDo]

My fiance' has a 6 year old daughter that the mother is keeping from him. He  is supposed to have reasonable phone access to his daughter as well as every other weekend visits. So...in April, his ex stops letting him talk to or see his child. He continues calling every week on either Monday or thursday because these are the days she has designated as his calling days. So week by week goes by and most often, his ex never answers. On the rare occasions she does, she doesn't say much. Anyway, he asks to have visitation for Father's Day weekend and suprise suprise, she says "No." So he calls her house on Father's Day to at least talk to his daughter. His ex answers and says "Hello?" and he says "Can I talk to ******?" And his ex hangs up on him! So a few more weeks go by and his ex continues to not answer the phone when finally, in July she answers, says his daughter doesn't want to talk and hangs up. That night my fiance' gets an email from his ex saying "Thank you for calling on the appropriate day and time. I'm very sorry for you that your daughter doesn't want to talk."

So now skip ahead to last week. My finace' has called every week and hadn't gotten an answer since July. So finally last week his ex answers and chews him out for not trying to talk to or see his daughter since April! He says "I have tried calling but you never answer." She says "No you haven't! I have caller ID and your number never shows up.You're a liar!"....Okay...first of all she sits there and says he hasn't called since April when she even emailed him in July saying thank you for calling on the right day and time. And then on the phone she also says "ANd NOW you call? On a THURSDAY!?!?!" all suprised like she's can't believe he would call on a thursday. Uh, duh lady. THat was one day you set up for his phone calls.

This s*** goes on constantly. She calls him a liar all the time. I think she lives in her own little world and ACTUALLY believe the lies that come out of her mouth.

[Pixie]

I am not kidding on this one. Seriously, his happened less than 6 weeks ago.

I haven't had a CS increase since 1999. Ex is making almost 10K more per year, is married so no more paying all bills on his own and last financial disclosure that CS enforcement made him do showed $25,000 deposited into his account over 2 months. Hmm... right? If you were only getting $258/ mo for your 12 yr old child, he helps with nothing, buys nothing for her and she sleeps in the guest room and doesn't so much as have a drawer to put a sock in... getting the picture? This isn't like some of you fantastic fathers here who actually PURCHASE a book for your kids to read at your house...

So I file for CS increase. He and I had an agreement in December that I knew he made more but I would wait 6 months as a favour because he settled his arrears. ($14,000)

I file for Increase (as discussed)

He replies... with... ready??? A PATERNITY SUIT. *roflmao*

DD is 12. 5 years old.

We were exclusive high school sweethearts attached the hip, never out of each others site, when I got pg.

We haev had over 80 appearances in court for his 'issues'.  We are on document #79 after court since 1997. Split up 9 years ago.

He has NEVER filed for Paternity, ever.

He admitted to being the father, declared it, we have a court order stating it that he signed.

He has never in all the years disputed it, until I filed for CS increase this time.

Needless to say, our Judge yelled at him, called him names, made the baliff hold his arm while I was escorted to my car because ex is normally violent, and she said if he EVER stated the "P" word to our 12.5 yr old she would make him pay $5000 fine for 'therapy costs'. LMAO

[Sunshine1]

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[Pixie]

I know, amazing isn't it?

DD was born, we were together for 5 years, split up when she was 3.

Now... the 33 yr old man has married a 23 yr old young lady, DUMPED his daughter, stopped phoning her... oh.... it was priceless.

The last time she saw him? January.

The last time he called her? May... 3 min on her bday. She asked him why didn't he call or show up, he got mad at her for 'questioning' him and ended the call. :(

She emailed him,  he told her he refused to email w/ her.

He invited her for dinner ONLY if his wife could go. DD asked if it could just be the two of them together, she wanted to talk serious w/ him about problems they were having, he said "Wife goes as a "Family" or else I don't go and you don't go." We were SO sad for her and she was so sad. She felt like he made her choose between him or her and it wasn't a fair question to ask a then 11 yr old.

She has lived w/ DH and I for 9 years since we got together and she is really happy here, w/ her 5 yr old brother (DH and I together) and she is 'safe' emotionally here so she told him " I am going to stay home with "MY" family thanks" and that was the end of that convo.

[4honor]

OK the person with the counseling for the constipation is ahead so far. And Pixie is in close second, but I would like to change my submission to this:

Many of you know that SS was tried and convicted of Child Rape in the 1st degree for his abuse of my 2 DS'.  AND how we had a hard time with BM and MIL/FIL over this when it came out.

When we told BM the allegations, her response was this: "You are just making things up to get custody of SS!!! You just want to make me look like a bad mother!"

AS IF we orchestrated the abuse specifically to get to her!

AND that, my friends takes alot of nerve.

[cathy]

raise you a "the BM is still with her husband even after he took a plea bargain and pled guilty to assault on a female instead on indecent liberties with a minor"

Oh and let's not forget - the older girl told her mother that the man was molesting her - but BM did nothing except convince the girl that it was just a misunderstanding.

And of course, 1 1/2 years later, when BOTH girls told us that their stepfather was molesting them - - well of course, we all made it up to "steal" the girls.

And now, over 3 years later - the BM is STILL with this man.  Of course, she still claims we made it up to "steal" the girls and her husband was FORCED to pled guilty.